Originally posted by Crakeur
reply to post by Amaterasu
your mixing up two points. one, WMA made a suggestion, which was taken and followed, based on a consensus of the managing team.
two, the investors might have inserted requirements that dictate that the management team follow the same pattern as before they got involved, taking
a certain path, following certain guidelines etc.
I wasn't saying the second was the case, merely stating that it might have been.
And I was saying that bringing up what "might have been" is a rather moot exercise. But you're free to do so. [smile]
in any event, the issue with nomadrush boiled down to factors that, apparently, weren't to his liking and, instead of discussing things with
one of the amigos, he opted for the break the t&c method of dealing.
I agree that his choice of behavior was poor. But I also think that in boiling it down, one must also include the fact that ATS failed to act on a
personal level, terminating the arrangement with nomadrush abruptly and with no sensitivity for his point of view.
Both sides chose poorly.
then he went and badmouthed the site (and me) and that's pointless and immature.
Agreed, but when one feels hurt by what appears to be cavalier dismissal, this is not an
unexpected behavior. Poor choice, yes. Unexpected,
no.
truth is, the u2u exchange between Nomadrush and myself is quite the opposite of what he claims. His response to the automated u2u one gets
from an offtopic tag was childish and rude and I responded with a single line offering to return his points since the offtopic post was then deleted
by a higher up. his response was more of the same and then I explained the issue regarding his offtopic post and told him I was going to overlook the
snide remarks in the previous u2u's.
Was all this before or after the "legalese" U2U he posted on his blog that informed him of a deal that precluded the continuation of the then
present arrangement?
I suspect it was after... And I can assure you that from the moment that original U2U was received, all behavior was driven by pain and, though poor,
as I have said, still understandable.
the issue he had after this exchange was other staffers and I am sure they were no more rude than I was.
I do not doubt that the staff comported themselves well at that point.
He was angry over something. He let it get the best of him and the end result is that he left in a huff when he could have still been
here.
Agreed.
I could "woulda, coulda, shoulda" about how that initial information was delivered and how this whole affair might have gone better.
At this point, though, I recommend letting the anger run its course. And to keep in mind for the future that it is always best to break bad news with
a personal and gentle touch.
[edit on 9/20/2008 by Amaterasu]