posted on Apr, 22 2008 @ 07:47 AM
I used to just approach a girl and start talking, tease em a little but in a playful way, show them you are interested but not too interested
importantly be sincere....girls have great BS detectors and have heard it all. Remember, she has already been approached by 20 guys before you that
day...and that was while she was out running errands. Confindence is truly the key. I have picked up girls without saying a word...example..
I was in a bar sitting across from girl, we made eyes for about 10 minutes and finally I just waved her over. That's right gave her the wave and
pointed to my chair. Over she came and that was that. I think she was so shocked at my suggestion that she was already up and walking before her mind
could tell her no
Keep in mind though that it also depends on what you are looking for....If you are just looking for a one night stand then I suggest you go the way of
guys like Mystery..but without the dorky clothing, like the oversized goggles and the Pam Anderson Fluffy Top hat. I assure you dressing like that is
not cool!!!! Do not attempt it!! Focus on the Self Confidence because that is totally where its at! I have seen SO MANY times where a very
unacttractive man has picked up SEVERAl woman at once by displaying an insane amount of Self Confidence and wit! You are as acttractive as you
believe you are.
On the flip side of the coin there have been times where I have tried to wave a girl over and she doesn't......often
It happens, for whatever
reason. Laugh it off and move on.
I would recomend honesty and sincerity over "Pick up" angles. Be yourself and believe you are dope. Everyone else will follow
Oh and for what it is worth..throughout my experiences, one night stands get old fast. Finding someone interesting and cool that you really connect
with is like finding a diamond on the beach, it's rare but it does happen.