Nothing is making us mean. We simply are mean. And today, we can be mean without any consequences.
I remember when I was younger (back when dinosaurs roamed the earth

) people were still mean, but if they got too mean to the wrong person, they
would end up in some serious pain. You learned in school that if you got in someone's face, that someone would quite probably punch your face. It led
to a few bloody noses and busted lips, but that was about all. We were kids, and really didn't have the strength to hurt each other seriously.
As time progressed and we all grew older, a few still hadn't learned the rules of politeness. The punishment got tougher since the people they now
angered were stronger and more capable of producing bodily harm. A few broken bones here and there, now on rare occasions, resulted. But by the time
we became adults everyone had learned that rudeness was a painful experience.
Now we have telephones that call across continents. You can dial a local number from your phone and it be re-directed to a city thousands of miles
away. There is no consequence for the caller to not be rude, since it is unlikely that you have a telephone that can transmit physical contact. Or we
can message each other across the entire planet via email. Again, no consequence. Even this forum, which I do enjoy, contributes to this lack of
consequence. (Although I will have to give credit to the Owners for maintaining what is a relatively peaceful environment.)
As time has progressed, some in society have decided that the tried and true method of allowing children to settle their own differences is somehow
antiquated and no longer advantageous. Thusly, we have preteens expelled from schools for such acts as throwing a punch, rather than punishing them
and allowing natural adjustment to society. This serves only to embolden and further anger the victims, until finally they show up one day in a
college campus with an illegal gun and no reason in their mind to live.
We also acclimate when adults to this new concept of no repercussion for rudeness, and when we are confronted face to face with another actual human
being, we don't remember as strongly those lessons learned in our youth. So we get road rage incidents, domestic violence, etc.
Want to stem the tide of meanness? It's simple. Every post, every e-mail, every phone call, imagine the other person is as big as you are and
standing in front of you with a clenched fist. I do. It's amazing how much more polite and respectful you become.
TheRedneck