posted on Feb, 27 2008 @ 12:10 AM
usually i just totally ignore them, or if they are being insulting i have a few different ways to deal with it.
like if someone gives me grief at work for being a bit rounded ill either turn it into a joke or exaggerate. ie : "hey i bet YOU eat a few pizza's
in one sitting" and ill reply "yeah, the other night i had about 9 pizza's and still went to a chicken shop afterwards.
but if they keep at it and at it for days on end it tells me theyre just trying to get a rise out of me so i usually dont get angry, i just tell them
straight out what THEIR problem is.
like when people try humilliate and ridicule you infront of others ill say something like "ya know, people who are an egotistical mouth piece usually
like to ridicule others to try make themselves look good to everyone around, but its actually a sign of inferiority complex, or self esteem issues,
usually steming from a low IQ and little life experience. so they act tough to try make up for the fact that theyre unintelligent.
the dude replied "oh i told you before dont use big words" and i replied "thanks for proving my point, it seems you DO have a low iq"
so while they try take cheap shots ill just come straight out with a few home truth's about how theyre beating their chest like a gorilla to act
tough.
three guys in particular constantly gave me a hard time at work, so one by one i tore them down with the greatest of ease using logic.
they had been at me for a few months without getting a rise outta me, and then one day i calmly state a few home truths in reply and ive had them in a
fit of rage before lunch rolls around.
then next time they tried to get a rise i pointed out how they never got me angry, but i got them angry with the greatest of ease and that if they
give me # ill have THEM in a fit of rage without even trying.
ever since, they've all been nice to me.. including the time i mouthed off at one of the boss's by telling him WHY he didnt get his promotion (his
attitude)
its so easy to hit a nerve when you use home truth's... but i dont enjoy doing so, i do it as a last resort.