posted on Mar, 1 2008 @ 09:56 PM
Originally posted by orangetom1999
Here is where you and I are going to differ. I dont see him as being a player..nor a misogynistic ahole. I see him as being stupid. Her too, for that
Can't argue with you there. I really was referring to another guy who related this story to me, BTW.
And being a player is overated. Its a bull s--t way of getting someones hard earned moneys.
No, that's being a gigolo, Deuce :p
Be a man instead.
What a cheap tacky term for being on the string...player.
Well, whatever - it's only a word, after all! Such rage, over a simple word!
The point is to live the lifestyle that YOU want, with the kind of people that YOU want. Not settle for the first person who comes along, demands a
commitment, and "substitutes her beliefs and values for yours", as you so eloquently put it.
Now, is that "being a man", or being a "player" - who cares? They are only words!
However ..just as stupid in this context is a man who must get drunk in order to be a "player" or what he thinks is a man. For thinks is a man you
can substitute ..the appearence of a man. Not a real man.
Again, can't argue with you there. "Liquid Courage" is a poor substitute for real courage.