Originally posted by MrdDstrbr
reply to post by orangetom1999
I was trying to read through your post, orangetom, but I just....... started.......... daydreaming.................
No, NEVER let a woman run mind-control on you! You're right, NEVER let a woman "substitute" her beliefs and values for yours!
Stick to your guns, guys!
If a woman has a commodity of real intrinsic value to offer me ..I dont mind making changes in in values in certain arenas. Why??...because she is
worth it against the competition...most of which have airheaded values just like much of the nonsense quoted in the article.
Sex and beauty are not real value to me. They are placebos. Sugar pills. A beautiful sexy woman with no real value other that those items is high
maintenance. Ive had enough of the high maintenance types with short attention spans. No thanks. She can be beautiful and sexy but only if she has the
other requirements too. They come first. A beautiful sexy high maintenance woman is in fact ugly. Very ugly.
By the way..you never hear this explicitness in these types of articles. It is alway implicit that she has everything..you as a male must try out
for approval against her everything...what nonsense.
Always remember the concept of implicitness verses explicitness.
The most difficult commodity I find to obtain from todays woman is Peace...not ..Piece. Peace requires real understanding and commitment from a woman.
Piece only requires the appearance of commitment from most...while substituting and compromising your value systems in the other areas. Dont ever try
to tell me that only men are commitment phobes. I'll never buy into that.
I am certain that most of you guys are younger than am I. Nothing wrong with that most certainly. It is just that most men dont learn this at
sufficiently young enough ages to make a difference in market trends. You should know and learn this at younger ages and be able to apply it when
warrented. This way you dont have to put up with or tolerate such nonsense from women or females trying to pass for intelligent or sophisticated when
they are not.
You also dont have to listen to or tolerate this nonsense from other males about .... "being a player." What nonsense!! Try being a man
But this also means that you yourselves must know the difference and know with confidence. Most of the women out here are not accustomed to men
being able to think outside of the glandular oil shortage level. You can tell this by many of the assumptions in the posts on the relationship boards.
Most of the women are correct in this about most of the men out here.
Give you guys an example in thinking here.
This type or variations of this statement from the article
As much as I hate to say it, girls love jerks! At least until the jerk stops calling, which is usually right after he gets what he wants.
Ive had numerous women try to play through on making me malliable/programmable to thier viewpoints by implying that I come to them for only one thing.
Right here and immediately is where you need to bring them up short.
I simply tell them in no uncertain terms that they are not sitting on the only one in town. It is not a commodity in short supply. It will not become
extinct and on the endangered species list anytime soon. It is not difficult to get women to come over and take off thier clothes. As a matter of fact
I know women who will come over and take off thier clothes just to show the other woman that she is not sitting on the only one in town.
Then I proceed to explain to her that she can give me Piece if she wants....or not give it to me at all....but it requires something more ..much
more than Piece to stick around.
Guess what guys...at least half of the women will give you Piece..because it is the only thing they know and requires less commitment than the
alternative. Of the other half about half of them will walk..which is ok too. Of the half of the remaining half you watch them closely to see if they
are able to grasp the concept and understand if they know what to do with it. They might have potential. This is the portion you want to watch
carefully for long term potential. That is ...if you are looking long term.
Most of the women are not accustomed to a male thinking like this as stated...they are mostly accustomed to oil shortage mentality.
You guys need to know and understand this as it is a useful tool for survival in the mine field of nonsense out here.
Oh and another thing I want to point out about nonsense and doublespeak from the original article. Watch this here.
First contrast in doublespeak as I had forgotten to put this in in my last post.
charm comes from him being a player, and his passion is being the center of his own universe
Watch the universe getting set up here and at the guys expense. More doublespeak
We use our normally rational inner voice to convince ourselves that we can tame him or that with the right kind of girlfriend he will lose
his jerk armor and transform into a leading man fit for a romantic comedy.
and followed by this to close the deal in doublspeak.
i]A jerk loves being a jerk -- way more than he loves us
Concerning these three quotes and doublespeak... the assumption is that he is setting up his universe but the correct social setting is in fact ...her
universe..why is this?? Because by her girl stuff religion she can justify a "romantic comedy situation as a type of entitlement through the act of
"taming him"!!! Wow!!!
This type of nonsense is right out of a Cosmopolitan, Redbook, Elle magazine quiz and all the tips on how to be more of a "woman", right down to
the act of "Taming Him." Its textbook of this genre and the language/doublespeak used to justify this. You also find this nonsense as a standard
bill of fare in romance novels.
Got it yet...you are competing with romance novels and quizzes as a intelligent, sophisticated, mature standard!!!???
Who is in fact setting up the universe here and expecting of others?? That is the doublespeak.
Remember also..many of us men or males out here work in dangerous occupations to earn our moneys. We can be killed or maimed for life in our
occupations. We do not get a safety net put under us by women seeking to remove us from the danger of our money earning occupations. To flashdance us
through lifes hurdles and difficultys. To do this would require real commitment from a woman. Yet the best fantasy expectation she has here is to fit
us into a "romantic comedy???" Wow!! This is sophisticated and mature!! I can hardly wait.!!
Who is selling who short here?? This is the universe I am supposed to change my values for and cede/yeild after sleeping with her and letting her tame
If he doesnt do this for her he is a jerk?? Please lady. Give me a break.
This is real intrinsic value???
No it is doublespeak. Who is the Jerk here??
Does this sound like a rational logical reasonable inner voice??
One more thing...this is a woman hunting and gathering and the justification for it?? Dont ever be so stupid as a male that you dont understand that
women hunt and gather too. It is not just the males. However..this is the how it is rationalized....she deserves a romantic comedy??
And you as a male think you have problems with your oil shortage?? Wow!!
YOu dont have to put up with this nonsense trying to pass for sophistication when it is not. Otherwise you will put yourself in a position of taking
second best when socially required over and over to put out and expend first best. Why ..because she ,by your ignorance, lays the groundwork for you
to follow her lead....by trying out for approval.
You guys need to know better and differently and at a younger age.
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