posted on Feb, 12 2008 @ 09:36 PM
I used to think similarly ... but I stopped. Maturity is hard to find even in my age group (late 20's). 18 ... unless very rare, is not going to
have the mentality that appeals to me in the first place. They may have the style I adore, such as dyed hair, loose fitting clothes, and other
stuff, as well as a stronger spirit that still remains a bit non-conformist ... but unless they have all that and are calm, settled down, introverted
... just isn't my cup of tea.
I am so laid back, I just don't enjoy what most people even my age still do. Never been into clubs or bars. I have fun, just don't need alcohol or
large crowds to do it. I find most younger people desire that, and the drama that goes with it.
I am one who believes personality wins overall, a cute face is nice So I really don't have an age restriction 18 to late 30s, an 10 year +- range
from my own age ... but again, the older ones have their social quirks that don't fit into my view of a happy life as well ... so I just remain
being quite happy as a single person. As far as sex drive, I turn it off when single, I save that for someone I care about very much.
I could care less what you pursue as long as you stay within legal limits. Kudos for any success. I don't mind seeing anyone happy.