Apparantly in her grandmother's room, the chest drawers used to open and shut by themselves.
I guess if pots moving around seemingly by
themselves is possible, then why not drawers too? Mind you, it was my mom's gran. She might have been a little... imaginative
The fact that your father died shortly before the occurances makes it less likely to have simply been the house creaking, I would say. Besides, since when did a creaking house sound like pots and pans being clashed together?!

