posted on Feb, 6 2008 @ 02:59 AM
for the attraction the only thing not attractive about it is that you lose your love maybe 10-20 years ealier than you would if you marry a younger
i don't think that if you were 50 and she was 60 you would want to date younger women, or when you are even 35 and if she is in shape for 50 she will
still look good, it's just losing them earlier would enter your mind if you wanted to get serious
i have talked to my friends about older women a lot and we all love them, especially when they look good, and you can tell they have made an effort
into staying healthy and keeping a figure even if they do get a little larger with age, all my friends understand that and from a younger guys point
of view well she might have gained weight in certain areas and still looks good
it's just hard to approach them
most younger guys have this to offer "hey i go to university, you want to come to a kegger? then the bars after (the police shut it down)"
and in many ways an older woman is going to be more interesting too, she has more to talk about than MTV
and i mean just cause she is 42 and you are 22 as a guy if she is attractive to you well you are guy lol so...if she looks good, simply she looks
and an older woman has different things to offer
you older women need to get out more though
my younger male friends do NOT give a damn if you are married to someone who's not a friends dad, so i can't expect other men my age to be too much
different, not speaking for all of them, just my friends feel that if an older married woman was attracted to us, and showed interest and we were
attracted to her...as a young male you aren't really going to think about being a home wrecker so...it just is a question and that question is
"this attractive woman wants to have some nice conversation with me, do i converse?"
well if you like talking to attractive women you do converse
it's just starting a conversation and approaching older women, it's not always a good situation for "great success"
also if you find out she has kids, but she looks good, it's not really a big deal (unless you end up meeting her kids and they are brats or spaz's
[edit on 6-2-2008 by OSSkyWatcher]