posted on Jan, 26 2008 @ 09:49 AM
As an older woman who is occasionally dating a younger guy (20 yrs. younger), I have to say that younger guys can be like cookies in the break room.
You don't really need one, not really hungry for one, they don't offer any substance to your diet but they can be a nice little treat once in a
"My" guy is full of energy and charisma which can be a nice break from my little rut but all he wants to talk about is his really fast, really
expensive sports car. I am sooo not into cars. I turn down a lot of opportunities to go out with him because he has nothing interesting planned but
if he wants to go skydiving or parasailing, I always jump at the chance. Guys my age usually just want to go to dinner and/or a movie.
I'm not sleeping with him so it's not the "stud factor" that keeps the relationship going. Younger guys seem to want to impress you (I've heard
this from younger women, too) with how studly they are. BOOOORRRIINNGG!
When my 18 year old daughter brought her boyfriend home to meet the family, he said, "Wow, you're a MILF." My daughter promptly smacked him in the
arm. I didn't know what a MILF was (at the time) so I didn't know whether to slap him or thank him. Since my daughter had already smacked him, I
thanked him figuring that whatever he said to me got him the response he deserved. Now that I know what MILF means, I still don't know whether to
slap him or thank him. LOL.
I can't say what attracts younger guys to me. Maybe my immaturity? LOL. It's somewhat flattering but one can not fill up on cookies in the break