posted on Jan, 21 2008 @ 12:55 AM
Having been around the block a few times, I can tell that IMO trust is either there or it isn't.
Once lost it's very hard to regain.
Trust again IMO is never really the crux of the matter it's the fear of being along, you will keep telling yourself that you do trust them, you
really do. When in reality you wouldn't trust them as far as you could throw an elephant (I say elephant cos it's really heavy and wife throwing has
been banned in most countries).
You're scared, you're insecure. Quite a natural state to be in at your age (early 20's right?) Don't be in a huge hurry to settle down. I really
mean this, play the field - sow thy wild oats. 40 is the new 30 and all that crap.
Try having a much more casual attitude towards the other species er sex, that doesn't mean sleep with anything with a pulse (or still warm) it means
always have things to do, so when the SO says "I'm going out with my friend such-and-such tonight" you just say "OK that's cool, call me
tomorrow" and then go and DO something else, don't sit and brood over what they are doing, chances are you just being paranoid and making things way
The Love MonKey