Hi...we've all found ourselves in situations where we must decide: fight or flight. I for one, have never chosen the fight option..except once..not
because i wouldn't fight but because i have never been in a situation deemed worthing of throwing a punch. I'm pretty good at just walking away.
Anyways, even I..pacafist me..have my boundries. a few things that might make me lower my hand to my hip are family and my friends.
Saturday night was the first time i threw a punch at someone with the intent of trying to hurt them..ever..im 21. I feel as if it was justified. A few
people were mad at my friend..for reasons unknown by me..he got hit so i stepped in and threw a few punches and took a few hits myself no big deal.
Now what i'm wondering is if me sticking up for my friend and fighting is justified even if i don't know exactly it was he did? i think i was in the
right. Hes my friend.
What do you think? How much can you take before you throw a punch?
personally, i think a good fight once in a while is good, lets out your frustration, if you don't get in a good fight (or play violent video games)
you keep all your tension and one day someone asks you something stupid, then you explode on them, trust the expert; just kidding I'm no expert, but
i do now a lot about tension and frustration.
I can find other means of ventilating my frustration and anger. To release frustration and anger, IMO, is not a good reason to fight. Unless you are
involved in some sort of organized fighting and it is being moderated by a professional.
imo you should only fight when that one little chump won't leave you alone. if he just says some slick to ya only once then leave it alone.
but if he messes with you every single time you encounter eachother, go ahead and woop him.
Personally, the only time to fight, for myself, is when there is no other option. If someone is going to try to hit me, I am going to fight. I would
never start a fight. Also, if it was a friend, I wouldn't jump in unless it wasn't a fair fight. If it's like a 3 on 1 fight, you better believe
I'm jumping in. If you can't fight fair, don't bother. It just shows you are a coward.
The only real fight that I got was on a sparring match. I felt how is it to be choked to death, to be arm barred until you tap out, and to be triangle
choked. It felt like your neck is about to be snapped. Got to tapped out fast and cry uncle. lol
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