Originally posted by SEEWHATUDO
So for those of you who are much more educated on this subject than I...
My husband and I (with kids) are considering giving up the "American Dream" for a while and falling off the grid, running for the hills (or
mountains). We dont mess with the stock market's but we watch them and quite honestly we would rather rent, buy running used cars with cash and have
a nice garden in the back, is this advisable? What is the middle class "American Dreamers" looking at? What is reality here and for how long?
... I respect ATS opinions and would be grateful for some straight answers on the future of the Married with childrens, the middle class and any and
all insights into the best ways to ride the storm out for those of us who are not prepared, which is more than likely the majority of America,
including myself.
Of course up until March of last year (my join date) I had not a clue as to what was going on in this world, at times I wish I could go back to sleep
it would be easier.
Seeing the problems in America doesn't take much of an education to figure out that the "American Dream" has grown is less and less attainable. You
are observant and you're questioning the "logic" behind the marching-orders that We The People have been told for decades.
More and more people are realizing that the marching-orders are little more than a "game" -- a game that is completely rigged for a select few. The
majority of middle class has been conned into thinking that if they work hard and keep their collective noses clean, they will succeed and they'll
get their "American Dream". In the name of American progress (read: Corporate Greed), that "American Dream" was killed off when the US allowed
outsourcing and the insane trade deficit. Instead of Americans working in manufacturing, it all goes out of the US to people who work very cheaply 7
days a week. The "American Dream" is only realized by the CEOs, the other Black Suits, Hollywierdies, and the trust-funders.
If you do your own taxes (or pay close attention to how it all breaks down), one of the main reasons that people buy homes is because the Feds'
marching-orders tell us, at tax-time, that you can deduct the interest off of your mortgage. Of course, the interest deduction boils down to the TAX
off of that interest. It's all a numbers game and part of the "game" is whether or not you have figured out if you want to play that "game" or
live without the added responsibilities of owning a home. Face it, if you are the average home-buyer, the home you buy at the purchase price is not
the final cash-outlay at the end of your 15 to 30+ mortgage -- gotta remember all of those interest payments. That's the "game". Owning versus
renting is something you will have to determine based on the rules of the "game" and whether or not you want to play.
Being debt-free is one of the biggest liberators in America. If you have debt, my #1 piece of advice would be to get debt free ASAP. I am speaking of
credit card debt or car debt, etc. Pay these debts down until you pay it off. Stop giving your hard-earned money to the big-banking industry --
they're not worth it! My mortgage was paid off in 13 years....we kept making principle payments out of schedule. We have no car payments. We are debt
free and living on 1 salary by choice (plus investment income that keeps being re-invested). We have a BIG garden, a greenhouse, and solar.
I believe in the philosophy of living low and keeping things simple. If you can live without plugging into America's commercialized-consumerism, you
are not only wiser but much better off financially.