posted on Dec, 25 2007 @ 01:02 AM
This is the last place I would ever think about going to spill my feelings and ask for a little advice, but sometimes it just feels better talking to
people you don't know.
Love isn't a topic I usually discuss, I tend to avoid it because basically love has always stabbed me in the back.
I got out of a long term relationship in July that ended pretty bad, and still the woman comes back to haunt me.
I finally told myself i'm through with women, well you know how that works lol. Now I have fallen madly in love with my best friend of 2 years, I
have been in love with her once before and told her that I liked her and this was about a year and a half ago, she told me she liked me to but she
didn't know what she wanted but we were both drunk as hell so I didn't know if what she was saying was truth, and plus she had just gotten out of a
relationship too, So I finally mustered up the nerves to call her 3 days later and asked her is she meant what she had said the other night and she
said 'YES' me heart was beating so fast when I heard her say that, I was in complete bliss for about a week their, so after that I hung out with her
that weekend and I finally asked her if anything would ever come of us and she said 'Probably not anytime soon', that crushed me, i had been wanting
to be with this girl since the day I met her and finally a year later i muster up the courage to tell her how I feel and she tells me she feels the
same way and then tells me 'not right now', so I automatically feel completely rejected, she wouldn't even look at me, I was on the verge of tears
so I just said 'alright' and walked out of the room and acted like nothing happend. Then I find out that she slept with another dude who was my best
friend and he knew how i felt about her, I was infuriated I didn't know what to do, I was just thinking over and over again did she like him more?
Then about 2 weeks after that the guy that she was dating before asked her back out and she said yes.
(1 year later)
Alright well I get a call about a week before thanksgiving this year from her and she wants to hang out, she tells me her boyfriend broke up with her,
I tell her how sorry I am and everything, and we immeditately start hanging out, we have hungout everyday since thanks giving except for 2 days, she
calls me every morning when she wakes up to come hangout with her, she flirts with me and everything, but I don't know if shes joking around or being
serious because she has always done that, well she has stopped calling me now since last thursday, and it's like i'm going through withdrawls here,
everytime the phone rings my heart skips a beat but it's not her, so i have been calling her and we still have been hanging out but she has acted
alot different, i know she hasn't talked to her boyfriend any and i know she hasn't met another guy, and I so badly want to tell her how I feel
again but I don't want the same thing to happen again, I'm so scared to tell her, shes the type of person that would just come out and tell someone
she likes them too, that's another thing that has me so bummed, maybe she is waiting on me? I don't know but it is really stressing me out, I'm the
one that had to come out and say it last time, but this time the situation is so complex and I'm afraid it would do more harm than good if I just
told her, but right now my love for her is eating me alive, I can't get her out of my head, I think about her every minute of the day, and when I lay
down at night I wander if she's thinking about me too, but for the past 4 or 5 days it seems like she has just not wanted to hangout or anything,
today is the first day i haven't hungout with her or talked to her in 3 weeks, i was going to wait and see if she would call me and she never did, so
I called one of my other friends and they were hanging out with her and it really broke my heart, I just want to tell her so bad but if she says no I
can't take another heart break.
Does anyone have any advice on this?
[edit on 12/25/2007 by Uniceft17]