posted on Feb, 9 2004 @ 10:43 AM
Also NO anti-depressants...
FYI--- Guys will go to therapy if it will make them better.
He might be the kind of guy that pity's himself, so he won't want to go because this is a comfort zone for him, he gets additional attention, this
is comforting to him..
NOTE: This is the wrong kind of comfort, it is also the wrong kind of attention, it is the wrong kind of attitude to carry...
If he makes EXCUSES for not wanting to go, you need to get hard with him, and point out the above to him.
He should feel shameful and embarrassed if that is indeed the way he thinks, he will get defensive and maybe angry, that shows you also he is indeed
thinking the above.
Make him understand that his comfort zone needs to change, it isn't healthy. Tell him he needs to pull his head out of his asz and see a behavioural
This is for his own good. He needs to evolve as a healthy human being, not a self pittying/whats the point in living kind of individual.