posted on Dec, 7 2007 @ 03:35 AM
the initial idea i have on thisone that it is wrong not to slap your kids or stir up the dust on their buts sometimes. i am not saying to hit them
till they bleed to death.
gentle hits without causing excessive pain can mace all the difference!
and now, the difference:
i observed some extreeeeem cases when kids get lost in their world. and the result:
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a small amount of violence is all what kids need to get a grip on reality. a teaching of what pain is (i am largely referring on psychological
impact). and the most important:
TO DEVELOP A SENSE OF SELF PRESERVATION.
the second and also the most important part of this, is to isolate the kids after the "fight". this is where the most part of the evolution takes
hold. first desperation than unimaginable anger when this settles than he will fell sorry. note that it is extremely hard to estimate the time of
isolation for the child. and also take care to be perfect isolation (no tv, no friends, no PC, or other stuff that may interrupt the process up to the
point of sorry, he can and up on the point of anger -or even worse: suppress it).
i took one single kit in the face that caused me nosebleeds, other than that all where "educational". and after some good years i realized that i
learned not to cause harm, not to torture animals, respect, saying thanks, apologize,... (countless). and the most important:
i cannot feel hate more than 30 secs at a time and just in the most extreme cases.
i never had a (real) fight, i never hit a woman and i am characterized as being to sincere in some cases.
i had and have one girlfriend for almost 3 years, healthy sexual life, a cat and 2 birds(dont know their names in English).
i work with 8 beautyfull women and never cheated.
and i might fight with my own kids some day.