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Originally posted by DeadFlagBlues
Society in freefall.
I really have no hope for the human race in it's entirety.
Originally posted by Vasa Croe
Either way this is inexcusable and these boys should be punished as harshly as a typical sex-offender would be.
Originally posted by Lonebear
reply to post by SEEWHATUDO
I live in the west Atlanta area and have a niece living very near the complex. I would not swear by this but the talk in the neighborhood is that none of these kids are bad. The boys are pretty much your normal kids and as such curious and reportly, so is the girl. It was probably a case of the girl going in the woods with some younger boys that she did not feel threatened by, to experiment a little. It might have gone a little farther than she planned or not. It happened on Thursday, she even told a friend or two and she went till Sunday when somehow her parents found out. To get out of trouble she cried Rape, never thinking that it would cause such a stir.
I'm sure your a fine mother who loves and protects her children. However, if you think your boys are that innocent, you are greatly mistaken. It's no failing on your part. I hate to tell you but look at the media. Slick Willy, making it necessary to tell our 8 year olds what oral sex was, didn’t help. None of our kids, boys or girls, are innocent any more.
I was at home with a friend in a well to do suburb north of Atlanta, perhaps your's. His 2nd grade son came home crying. Two fourth grade girls had taken him in the girls room after school and tried to perform oral sex on him. The school administration would not believe it or do anything. Of course you would never know this because they wouldn't report it. That’s what our society has done to our once innocent kids.
Please believe me. I really hope that what you believe about your children is correct but if it is they are the exceptions. I'm betting your nine year old knows what sex is, he knows what else his "thing" is for, he has, at the very least, played with himself to find out and when he is alone with a friend, like under the covers at a sleepover, he's played "you show me yours and I'll show you mine". And you know, there is nothing wrong "per say' with any of that behavior. It's called exploration and it's one way kids learn. Our society unfortunately just has them doing it a lot earlier.
The best you can do is make sure your kids know you love them and that they can talk to you about this stuff. Hug them often and with G-d help they will come out OK.
Originally posted by yahn goodey
reply to post by greeneyedleo
we live in a society where children give birth to children----the parents are both busy working and the tv and other kids educate each other when at school and after it is out-----
if there are 2 parents left--- when they come home from work they are too tired to spend time with their children to educate them in morality------the schools teach how to have "safe" sex but not necessarily if its not o.k. to have sex if you're not married.
ask the young men----would they rather have a wife that is a virgin or a wife that slept with all the football team ?common sense says a virgin is prefered?too bad parents dont know? or have the time to teach common sense.