They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is a nice way of saying reality is in the eye of the beholder.
I can read something and quite clearly see a word and understand its context and effect on the text around it. Then I will go back and look for that
word, and lo and behold, it is gone. I imagined it.
I'm willing to bet this happens a lot more than I am aware of, as how often do you go back and look for a word?
Your Pa, as does everyone, lives under the omnirule: 'I reject your reality and substitute my own.' Immortalized by Mythbusters, the
statement rings true even if you might scoff at the suggestion that you have a highly biased way of looking at things, so biased in fact that it
alters how you perceive them. I guess a full expression of what I'm saying here would require multiple pages and someone far more gifted with words
than I, but the basics still stand. We see things as we want to see them, and it is only through close analysis of both the object of our attention
and ourselves that we can begin to have an unbiased view.



