reply to post by Realtruth
True.
But, I didn't use the card on the groceries out of necessity. I did it to build my credit for the future when I knew I would need it.
I would buy about 70 bucks in groceries (and sometimes gasoline) a month and then pay it off and I built my credit up quite nicely.
As I said, my ONLY problem came along as the result of two separate incidents that just happened to fall at a bad time.
And, as a result of that little problem, my credit hasn't recovered even after this length of time, even though I got that problem straightened out
fairly quickly all things considered.
The whole point of this thread is how flawed the credit system is.
Everyday more and more things become dependent upon a credit score that really says NOTHING about you as far as your reliability or dependability to
pay a debt.
It is not exactly easy to build a perfect credit score, yet, it is VERY VERY VERY VERY easy to get a terrible one. And, 7 times out of 10, the
person's credit is hurt through financial hardships that couldn't have been forseen.
It's a real shame.
I personally would LOVE to go back to a collateral based loan system and smaller and more personal banking institutions. Things would be much better
for the lower and middle class.
The credit card companies prey on the lower and middle class and their desire to have a few good things in life.
Most people that DO get into hardship with their credit as a result of overspending do so because they have NEVER had any of the good things in
life.
They have struggled through the rat race their entire lives never to be rewarded with any of the finer things that life has to offer.
Then, along come the VIRAL marketing campaigns of the credit cards.
When someone has struggled for nothing their whole life, these cards and the empty promises of 0% interest and "No payments until" can be very
seductive.
These poor people are seduced by the opportunity to JUST ONCE get a few things they enjoy without the worry of having to pay for them right now and
then they end up paying for them the rest of their lives at the cost of everything they own and care for.
Anyone who can't find compassion for those people has a truly empty heart and is just asking for the karma to hit them like a truck.
If you don't believe that, try sending your children to a school where they are picked on relentlessly because their clothes don't have the right
name brand on them or their shoes aren't marketed by the correct athlete.
Try going to job interview after job interview wearing the best clothing you have only to look bad sitting next to the guy in his thousand dollar
suit.
Try working 60 hour weeks and still being scared everyday that your power is going to be cut off or your car not making it to work everyday because
it's falling apart on you and you can't afford another.
Try having to live in a home in a violent and drug infested neighborhood because your job doesn't pay enough to afford anything better and having to
keep your children on lockdown to protect them.
THEN tell me those credit cards don't look mighty appealing.
Jasn
EDIT: Corrected the mistake of my fingers getting ahead of me.
[edit on 22-10-2007 by SimiusDei]