posted on Oct, 23 2007 @ 08:02 PM
Originally posted by outrider
well why does everyone except a select few think i did the wrong thing, i would like some more feedback on this, it confounds me to no end when you
say i did the wrong thing
The answer to the above question is the same as the answer to your original question, and the answer is experience.
We older people have just plain seen more. We understand consequences, having witnessed the process of cause and effect more than you have. We have
learned to think more long range than you do. We have seen more combinations and permutations of trouble than you even know exists yet.
You also must remember that every one of us can look back and see how stupid and ignorant we ourselves were when we were your age. We expect the same
stupidity and ignorance from you. Don't take it personally.
You do have the right to defend yourself. Did this situation call for it? I wasn't there so can't say. Was it a smart thing or a wise thing to do? I
don't think so. Violence should be a last resort. It sounds like you still had other options.
You should pay attention to many of the things that the other posters have said. Violence does return violence in a karmic sense. This guy might be
crazy and escalate it. He might use the system to get revenge by lying on you to the police. As was wisely pointed out, he's got the physical damage
if anyone does and he is an adult which means that the very same "own the world" factor will slap you again as the adult police believe what he says
over what you, the kid, says. Yeah, that kind of thing can happen and yes, people can be that vendictive and petty.
It would have cost you nothing, except maybe a little pride, to just back up and shut the door. It would not have made the situation any worse, but
could have made it better by diffusing it or making him commit to it. If he breaks your door down, you have physical proof and ironclad justification
to do whatever it takes to subdue him.
Here is some advice from one of the "owners"
Don't go looking for trouble. Understand that it's already looking for you. Make it work hard to find you and then beat the hell out of it when it
does.