Originally posted by Alexander the o.k.
I see a range of behaviors and morays CHOSEN by women.
Most good looking women CHOOSE to dress in high heels and short skirts and to be sexy. They flirt because it gives them a feeling of power. Sexual
At the same time I see women who are average looking resent them for making this choice of behavior. Most, not all, but most of the hot women I've
known have been shallow and self absorbed. I've seen it all my life.
If you say it is not their choice, but that society forces them to behave this way, then you are saying that women can not think rationally or for
themselves. You cannot have it both ways.
If this is not obvious, then please explain why it is not.
Been going on since I was little, and probably since time began.
Please, let's stop all the victimization speak here.
Women are not mind controlled by some vast male dominated conspiracy. They simply make their own choices regarding their sexuality, and their behavior
good or bad, and it is NOT society's fault.
That is 'victim' speak.
Males however, are expected to be strong, yet sensitive, provide an excellent income for the family, work 10 hour days but be home every night by 6 to
help with the chores, help with dinner, kids, vacuum, take out the trash, mow the lawn, fix the car, paint the porch, and take her out, etc.
I am a "good looking woman" and been told so by everyone all my life. I do not choose to dress in provactive clothing, I do not wear high heels ,
tons of makeup or gallons of hairspray.
I think your perception here is not taking into account age, maturity, social status, education, nurture etc.
I admit before I met my husband, in my late teens early 20's I dressed a lot more "sexy", wore more makeup(but not much more) but still no
hairspray etc. but I was on the prowl so to speak. My husband also had less paunch, more hair, whiter teeth and better dresssing habits when he was
Today I am married with children, early 30's, still cute (so they tell me
) but I now wear jeans, tshirt, crocs (the most unsexy shoe ever made) or
my old boots, my hair in a ponytail and no makeup, ok, maybe some lipstick if it's a special occasion
So my point is women should not be divided up by beauty or what they wear or how they dress, etc. because that will wane and fade as life goes on.
I believe that you have been hanging out with some young women are older women who are trying desperatly to recapture their youth. Women, just as men,
change throughtout life defining all of us within 2 paragraphs is impossible. We all come from so many different walks of life, we are all different
ages, we are all different.
You are lumping an entire sex into your definition, are you taking into account the woman in Africa, Iceland or China.
Do you know women from every country, every socio economic background, every age range?
How old are you and what is your expereince with women? Who are you to define an entire sex? and then ask for an explanation?
You have no idea what I do everyday and you have no idea what my husband does yet you once again seem to define a males "role" in society based on
You said you had a girlfriend, how can you define a marriage without even being married?
I feel you need a hell of a lot more life experience before you can ask anyone to explain to you why or why not your defintions are wrong.