posted on Sep, 27 2007 @ 11:31 AM
Hmm, turns out that they went to dinner last night, again.
And if she was making it with him, I'd have done what I did last night a lot sooner.
She ended up telling me she wants to just be friends. Hmmm. I told her that I love her, but not as a friend, as a partner. And that she either
wants me as her partner or she doesn't. She either has to be 100% or nothing. That I'm not going to be her friend, because it will just hurt me,
because I don't see her as a friend. So, "No, I will not be your friend."
Then she went on to say that she wants to not have to tell me what she does, who she sees et cetera. In other words, she wants the single life again
and still have me there when she wants a boyfriend, or more simply, 'friends with benefits'.
I told her no, I still don't want to be your 'friend', it'll just give me false hope.
I go to sleep and she texts me this morning telling me to give her another chance, that she won't continue hurting me. (Sounds like a crock of s***)
and that she loves me as her partner. I told her, "But you don't want me as your boyfriend." and she told me because I don't let her do what she
wants to do. I told her that I can't compromise on the basics, and no, I can't be your friend.
So... I'm doing pretty good
Thanks for the help, guys and gals