sounds like you're going through the typical female teenager bi-sexual phase.
almost all of my girlfriends in life have told me when they were in the 13-17yr old range, they were bi-curious at one point or another and ended up
having "sexual relations" with another female.
its just a fact that alot of teenage girls who claim to be bisexual end up realizing that they just find the woman's body to be beautiful and the
fellow woman's mind to be interesting. you should find it interesting and compatible, because you have the same general thing .. a woman's brain.
plus at your age guys are big-time immature, so you probably haven't had a "true love" experience with someone who is a male, im just assuming this
much from my personal experiences. i'm a male in my lower 20's, well, as of the 18th i'll be 25, eep. Cant say that anymore!
but throughout my teens there were tons of girls making out w/each other. why?> because it was "cool" and the in-thing to do. girls who were bi got
more attention from guys because they are told to find this sexy, two women making out. so they get that extra attention, and also, they get the
attention thats semi-negative from ppl who are like .. wtf? are they for real? etc.
consider what is natural.
not having sex with men is natural. you do not have to have sex.
but having sex with women, isn't natural. thats why it's technically impossible, you both have an insert, theres no object to insert with, which is
actually attached physically to the other person that the other person receives pleasure from!
.. in the flesh itself not the brain through
emotion .. so in the end, you'd just be bumping holes, and eating a lot of tacos.
so my advice for you is to go ahead and make out with girls if you want, and just hold off from having sex with any boys at all until you get older.
but when it comes to sexual relations with another girl, only do it if in your heart of hearts you TRULY have a pressing DESIRE to do so. If you dont
feel that, almost primal instinctive kind of impulse, dont do it, its not natural for you.
see, i bet alot of women are thinking im an ass right now, but im not. I believe that people are either born gay or are not gay. I do not believe in
the term bi-sexual, because if you like the same sex, you're gay
regardless of if you like the opposite sex as well, you see. Bisexual was a
term invented to try to make it more socially acceptable among peers. Case in point, its not "cool" to be gay, but its "cool" for young girls to
be "Bi" in American society.
now, if you are truly a homosexual through and through, and were born that way, then you are GAY! CONGRATS!
Booze it up and celebrate! :w:
I have no problem whatsoever with gay people. In fact, I like them. They're cool, fun to have around, always liven up a social setting. desirable
social traits. more so than some straight people. which means .. God meant for you to be a homosexual! Yes its true! Despite the Bible and the
.. I, a new wave gospel sharp, am telling you, that God says it is okay to be gay, if you are born that way. For if you are born that way, are you not
created as such by God? You had no choice over that.. therefore it cannot be wrong. The sins of the parents cannot visit the innocent child this
profoundly. No, despite what they say .. thats all rubbish. Each one is entitled to their own and a clean slate on their consciousness.
The Bible was written during a time that the majority of NON Christian males living in civilized society, comparable to our own minus the technology,
were Gay. Romans .. Spartans.. Greeks.. Lydians.. Ephessians .. all of em, the normal thing was male on male for pleasure. Only did they have sex with
women for reproduction, and even then, the most attractive things that the woman could wear and appear as were of a male nature or boyish nature.
Short cut hair, mens outfit .. bet you didnt know this huh?
So naturally, when Paul visits these places to preach, hes going to try to focus in on that one thing, because it was blatantly prevalent; that many
men could not all be naturally gay. No, that was a product of a "incorrect way". Think about it.. bunch of guys sitting around, primitive, drunk.
They cant get any butt.. so what do they do? One night they're REAL horny .. so they turn on themselves. Then next time they cant get any, they do it
again, realizing that .. a climax is a climax. And thats probably how that started in the Greek and Roman world. Nobody knows for sure. But they
werent all natural.
God accepts natural Gays. And only you know if you're a true Homosexual. Only you remember your own memories and can trace who you were crushing on
all through your days since toddlerhood, be it innocent crushing or not. And if you are truly Gay, you are accepted for who you are.
But if you feel like you arent truly gay, that you feel kind of uncomfortable or weird when performing these kinds of sex acts .. then just stop,
because its not the true way for you. Only go with the truth.
Cant go wrong with the truth. The truth is better than Gold. It's sharper than a Katana. It's heavier than guilt. It's brighter than the Sun.
[edit on 9/15/2007 by runetang]