posted on Sep, 24 2007 @ 07:09 PM
Their primary targets are usually family members and relatives, and then friends.
They target the ones that mean alot to them most of the time. The more you ignore the instigator, the worse they will get. Instigators do not know
that there is a flaw in their character and it is bothering others. The only way to fix the instigator is to let them know what is wrong with them,
instead of ignoring it. The more you say to yourself "Just block him/her out" the worse it will get. They won't let you block them out.