reply to post by SimiusDei
12. Guys, being compassionate and caring is a good thing. Being a pansy is not.
I must say this post is extremely important. Though, this number 12 I know for an absolute fact that most guys that I know do not understand this.
Compassionate does not mean trying to get your girl to tell you everything that is wrong and caring doesn't mean pressing the point. You are worried
that you are the problem--well, get over it. That would be being a pansy...
To be compassionate means to put yourself in her shoes. To be caring means to listen--not to just hear what you want to hear.
Don't let life bring you down, because it will bring her down. That would be being a pansy. Don't let her know every problem you have and don't
gripe about your day and don't complain that she made your sandwich wrong and don't complain that she wants to watch a show on the tv and don't
complain that she wants a job or whatever! Get over your -self-.
Chances are, your girl has been doing more for you already than you will ever know. Be appreciative.
I get to see many people everyday... I get to see many girls around their guyfriends. I must say, girls are still way more loyal than guys. I see
thugs all the time acting like they are in control. I don't just mean the bling-bling thugs either. I mean construction thugs, roofing thugs,
framing thugs, mall thugs, farm thugs, your local convenience shopping center thugs, even college thugs and occassionally the business thug...
Get over your thugging. You're a bunch of pansies. ^_^
I've done all kinds of jobs before and I can tell you for a fact that construction is easy, roofing is easy, framing is easy, ANY mall job is easy,
farming is -sort- of easy, shopping centers are really, really easy, and college is a joke and well... that's why I say occassionally the business
thug because business isn't always easy.
I hope the points I am trying to make are clear and valid.
I readily admit I have a very easy job, and my college courses are freaking easy, and life really is just EASY. I go through the same crap everyone
else does. I really don't want to get into it, but the point is...
Girls act about 10 times stronger than most guys. And then the guys want to play macho... haha. Yeah.
Well... I suppose this post would be better fit for somewhere where there are a bunch of thugs, I'm not sure BTS would be the place...