posted on Aug, 15 2007 @ 10:12 AM
this is gonna be dumb to most of you but it is important to me.
i have been into ink for as long as i can remember and started getting ink when i was 13.
i have about 80% sleeves.
now, part of the whole mojo(for me), of having sleeves is to have the knucks done too.
now, a couple years ago i told my wife i wouldn't get them done...at the time, it was not as important as it is now. since then, i have gotten
several on my lower arms and hands, and it would look much better if my knucks were done as well.
i keep bringing it up be for lack of a better word, she won't 'let' me.
now of course i can go right now and get it done, but i am trying to be respectful of my wife....thing is, i changed my friggin mind and i want my
knucks done and she still is not caving.
she keeps telling me if i go do it, she's gonna be pissed and i'll just have to deal with it.
now, i don't want to upset her but man, i am VERY uptight about this.....it's throwing my whole deal off and frankly, i don't understand......i
have my neck, throat, and hands done....what the hell does it matter at this point if the knucks are done.
very frustrated man....
*what do i do?
i feel like i am torn.
respect my wife and don't get them cause she does not want me too, or, get em and deal with it..
it's not like we'd be talking divorce or anything...our relationship is solid....she would be mad...i'm thinking very mad but it wouldn't last
long and i would have my knucks.
thing is, i don't want it to go down like this but you have to remember, i have had a plan for my arms for 20 years now.....