posted on Aug, 2 2007 @ 12:35 AM
Ok, I apologize if you guys feel this is on the wrong board, but it's something i wish i had said, and didn't and should of. If this needs to be
moved, then move it.
I just got out of a long term relationship with a man I am in love with. He and I have been discussing being close friends, but he doesn't think I
can do that, because I'm still in love with him.
The love I feel, is true love. The kind where I'd lay my life down for his, and if it were needed walk away forever for his happiness. It has
become a self-less love. It's not that I don't want him.... I do. I'd be the happiest person, if he were to want to get back together. However,
his happiness to me is everything, so if he were to say that and not be happy, us being together would be pointless. I'm at a point that if he
wanted to date another girl, or we never see each other, I'd be ok with that. He could tell me things about the relationship, ask me questions bout
it, and get uncensored responses back. As long as he is happy, then I will be too. No matter what definition we put on our relationship, my desire
is his happiness.
How hard is that to understand?