posted on Aug, 2 2007 @ 11:08 AM
Lots of folks(myself included) are/have been afraid of rejection. I think that's your trouble.
I got over it and I have the hands down cure for you. That's right if you do the following, you will be cured of your fear of rejection in less than
How to cure yourself quickly of a fear of rejection, by Xatnys:
Go to public places, doesn't matter where, a grocery store, a mall, a bar(careful here) or whatever.
Find a girl that you consider to be "way above your league" .
Approach said girl. Better still, if you can approach here in front of her friends, you get bonus points as your rejection experience will be much
Try to chat her up, be as "cool" as you think you can be.(Which probably will make you look like a dork.)
Get rejected(98% chance of rejection).
Find other "unattainable" girl.
Approach and try to chat up again.
Get rejected again.
Repeat this process for at least 15 "unattainable" girls in the span of 4 to 5 hours.
Once the above is completed, go grab yourself a drink. While sulking in the fact that you've been rejected at least 15 times in the past 4 hours an
epiphany should occur: It doesn't matter how often you face rejection, as long as you're willing to go out there and try again.
You're now cured(really, you should be).
I noted that if you should try this at a bar you should be careful. If the little princess has a boyfriend/husband, or even a "alpha male" who's
interested, you run the risk of an....interesting situation. Use your head and keep your cool, make a swift exit.
Also note that I put "unattainable" in quotes. I did this because to YOU that lady is "out of your league" or "unattainable" but in reality,
most women are not that hard to chat up and get digits from. I'm not saying you'll "hit a home run", but most ladies it's easy to get a date from
if you're simply reasonably attractive, act semi-charming, and seem like you have a brain. If you can do that, don't fear rejection, and appear
confident, you'd be amazed what that will do for you with a lot of women. In my experience, you can get further with most ladies if you act
gentlemanly, seem intelligent and aren't trying to prove you're "He-Man" every 10 seconds.
Hope this helps you in some way/shape/form.
Go get'em tiger
*In case my wife reads this: sorry honey, just trying to help the kid out. I no longer use this. *
jk she's cool.