posted on Jan, 11 2004 @ 09:45 AM
I've been out with a few "Older Women" back when I was still dating. I've never fit in much with people my own age and also had a "thing" for
more mature woman as well. I suppose you could just say "Women" though since the one's my age were really just "Girls" anyway and not to be
considered "Women" let alone "Older Women". The Mature ones that were my age always had "Older Guys", so go figure?!?!
Anyway, if you're really thinking of a relationship or really anything past "Adult Fun" or as Lysergic put it "Knocking Boots" you should prepare
yourself for difficult times ahead. You're talking about 16 years difference from age 21-37. That is a rough spread for those numbers if you think
about it. You will do a lot of character development in your 20's and you've just started. There will be MAJOR conflicts in a variety of Social
Situations and even seeing eye to eye between just the two of you. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's not likely, honestly. I've tried it
a couple times.
However, if you both agree to go beyond simple friends just for "Experimentation" or whatever it is likely to pay off in certain ways. Like you've
already said, she is a "Teacher". If you agree to be the right kind of student, you may have a change to learn things from the perspective only an
"Experienced Mature Woman" can teach you! This includes areas other than physical too, BTW. Although the physical lessons will, most likely, be
the lessons you'll enjoy and practice the most.
Whatever you decide however, try and make sure Nobody gets hurt, emotionally or physically!