posted on Jun, 15 2007 @ 08:57 AM
Originally posted by nisurastar
I wonder why some couples just grow apart? a good marriage requires alot of work (but so does anything worth while). Ive heard the #1 reasons for
divorce are money, and communication.
exactly... who would've thought...
Communication, there was little if any. I don't know why, I'd get up, go to work, come home, have dinner, usually just sit around or watch tv or
something then go to bed. A lot of times, I'd sleep on the couch, I was being stubborn. My first wife wasn't very interested in sex. While I,
we'll let's just say 2-3 times a day would be good.
No Serioulsy and I'm not being a pig or selfish, when I say 2-3 times, I don't mean just as pleasure for myself, I mean to give and receive and be
there for her.
I'll admit that I could have tried harder with my first marriage, but the more I think about it, I honestly don't think I would have been happy.
I'm so glad that I had a chance to meet someone and fall in love again. I understand that this time, we must communicate to be happy and understand
each other. I love her so much, even more than the first time I realized I was in love with her. there's nothing I wouldn't do for her and for us.
I'll put her up on a pedestal and do whatever it takes to make her happy and her life as enjoyable as possible.
So yes, communication is key.
[edit on 15-6-2007 by elevatedone]