posted on May, 13 2007 @ 08:42 AM
Yeah, the whole idea of sex for the sake of quick and uncommitted gratification is not what would make me happy in the long term.
It only provides a temporary solution to a physical need. How long does the satisfaction last before that need has to be met again? Sometimes at
emotional or psycological cost!
There was nothing worse than being at the end of a physical relationship, feeling sad, and having your so-called friends, both male and female saying
things like: "you just need a quick shag, then you'll be OK"!
No, I won't actually, thankyou very much!
I needed love, affection, understanding, commitment, something deeper and more rewarding than just a quick physical act. But because I was a "male",
they only saw the stereotype of "male" an not an individual.
I once heard someone say: "men fall in love to have sex, and women have sex to fall in love"!
Guys, Gals, how true do you think this? Is this where a lot of relationship problems have come from due to false intentions?
Take "sex" out of the equation and what do you have left....True Love?