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reply posted on 13-4-2007 @ 09:24 PM by halocleptic
I tried to U2U you this, but I don't have enough posts.

The statistic you quote in your first post has a lot to do with a sort of mass media frenzy concerning the topic of autism (1 out of 150). Right now the NIH (national institute of health) and affiliated govt funding agencies are heavily funding autism research. How do I know? Part of my PhD thesis uses an animal model of autism. I am finding it very easy to get funded despite the huge budget cuts that have been imposed by the Bush administration compared to my colleagues. Because of the media frenzy involved a lot of misinformed people are spreading false/skewed info. Not on purpose, but because the telephone effect blows up data and scientific results into headlines that people love to read about. The whole point of this post is that from your description of your child it doesn't sound like autism at all. Right now autism is on everyone's minds and the diagnosis rates are soaring (hence the 1 in 150 stats). This happened with Depression (for example) which didn't officially exist until it became a medical diagnosis that the pharmaceutical companies could exploit. Another example is hyperactive disorders for which doctors are rampantly prescribing medications.

The push for research into autism is actually to develop some kind of treatment for the spectrum of disorders (that the drug company can charge you for). I'm worried that your son may have been diagnosed incorrectly. You should definitely get a second opinion. If he is above normal intelligence and socially well adjusted (in general) it could be that he is just very very intelligent. Very intelligent individuals have a hard time interacting with normal people sometimes (especially when a very smart child is trying to interact with normal/below normally intelligent individuals). You might just need to get him into a better school with harder more challenging curriculum. Ok this is getting long winded and I apologize. I know you said you have done a lot of research, but if you have any specific questions feel free to contact me. I know this may be a surprise, but a lot of doctors and clinicians are heavily influenced by the mass media and the pharmaceutical companies trying to push their products. I can maybe give you a different (non-agenda) perspective on the neurobiological/behavioral side of the spectrum of autistic disorders. One final question. When you said he is very smart is he ridiculously good at math, because that is a characteristic of autism. I mean can he do huge calculations in his head? Feel free to U2U me. I can make scientific journals you might not have access to available to you if you are interested in info straight from the source without the media spin.


reply posted on 13-4-2007 @ 09:37 PM by grimreaper797
news.bbc.co.uk...

for what its worth, a step on the bright side mate.


reply posted on 14-4-2007 @ 05:14 AM by Critical_Mass
Originally posted by robertfenix
I am not sold that it is actually a "problem" social interaction can be taught, he can learn how to express and experience emotions and to develop sympathy.

You can not teach intelligence.

Do not worry, but as his parent you MUST provide him with an enviroment where he is forced to interact with other kids, it might take a while to find the right sport or activity but once you do and he begins to feel that the other people are of equal capacity to him he will begin to build the social interaction skills he is missing.

People with High IQ as children can regard those people that they feel are not as smart as them with a sort of distain and almost treat them like they do not exist.

This is why IMO Autistic children with High IQ's are viewed as withdrawn. It is not that they do not know how to interact, its that they feel it is not required or not vital or even important to their current activity to then turn their attention to interact with someone else.

Its a type of self only personality shell that you as a parent have to break open by giving the child a compelling reason to interact with another person. Yet it must be done in an enviroment where the child feels it was his personal choice to interact with another person.

Whatever you do, do not shelter the child and do not allow them to alienate themselves from playmates. There should be an agreement that he can have X number of hours as alone play time, but that he must spend X number of hours in a group activity. As long as it is fun for him over time he will begin to want more "group" time vs alone time.



I have autism. I'm 34 now, but when I was a kid I had a really rough time.
People were very uneducated about it back then. They tried to put me on ritulin, change me from left handed to right handed, sent me to various psychologists etc. I went from special classes for kids with "problems" to special advanced subject classes in school. But the thing was I never had interest in any of it. I was disruptive to the other kids, and extremely critical of others to the point where it got me in a lot of trouble.

The reason I quoted this post was because it is pretty accurate. I never cared to socialize or compete with anyone since I saw no point in it. And believe me, that takes a lot to change. It doesn't mean there is no possibility of a social life (I am married with a little boy and have friends), but rather means that anyone I deem to possess a minimum level of intelligence in my mind does not exist to me. I ignore them. I often find myself frustrated with a lot of other people, especially people who lack abstract or diverse thought. I have no care to socialize with them. I am lucky that my wife is of substantial intelligence and we have very deep conversations. I think that is what attracted me to her, among other things.

And I have become a consistent over-achiever in everything I do with all the time I spend doing things, but again, I agree I take it all for granted. (I have to be reminded frequently) Where I am currently at is never good enough, so I often find myself spending a majority of my time perfecting things I do. But this is not necessarily a bad thing. I make a very good living. In fact, I won't get into specifics but I am also a pretty popular pro boxer like my father and grandfather before me. I have an advanced knowledge of electronics, mechanics, and I am an accomplished self-taught guitar player. The emphasis here is that I am a success, I have happines, love and all the other things other people have. Autism doesn't separate you from all of that. I find that the only time I am really separated from everyone else is when I am in pursuit of a goal. I get pretty "fierce" when anyone gets in my way so to speak. I am also NOT a team player. I have to call the shots. I refuse to put my name on anything
that I didn't have complete control of myself. Hope that helps....


reply posted on 14-4-2007 @ 10:42 AM by Byrd
Found an interesting radio program by William Stillman on "what it feels like to have autism".

It's about the 3rd interview down on this page (they did several with him) and it was a pretty eye-opening experience to "be autistic" for 3 minutes.
www.beyondtheordinary.net...

I'm somewhat skeptical of some of the things he describes -- for example, autistic children being more in tune with nature and animals than anyone else. I can name a lot of counterexamples to that one, but I can see that they can become very involved in this because of their tight focus.

Here's a list of American Autism support groups... don't know if any of these have forums where you can ask questions, but I think that joining an internet forum of parents and relatives of autistic people might be very helpful, too:
www.kylestreehouse.org...

Here's one such online forum with 9,000 members (numbers are important because you're more likely to get more information)
www.cafemom.com...


reply posted on 14-4-2007 @ 11:53 AM by forestlady
I cannot recommend Temple Grandin's books enough. "Animals in TRanslation" is the first one I read. She is a highly-functioning autistic with a Ph.D. SHe is an expert in her field, that of working with ranchers, etc. to help them understand the psychology of animals. She designed a special cattle shute for the cattle and since she was so in tune with animals, she wanted to know what the animal felt when it went through her cattle chute; so she got in the chute herself. She then discovered that doing that, helped her greatly with the anxiety she felt from autism. Whenever she feels anxiety coming on, she crawls into the cattle chute. Something about the closeness of the chute walls helps her feel secure, just like it does for the cattle. There are many similarities between autistics and animals and Ms. Grandin proves it. I think that's why many autistics seem to have a special affinity for animals. They experience some things in the same way. For example, feeding an animal in a brightly colored container can make an animal nervous. They are very, very sensitive to light, bright colors, etc. I have a horse who's very gentle and sweet, but she really freaks out when I put her feed in a bright blue bowl. She won't eat from it, because it's too unnerving to her.
My mother and I have always suspected that I may be a highly functioning autistic. In some ways it makes alot of sense. I have always been highly intelligent and a little antisocial, although I now have learned alot of good people skills. As a kid, I spent most of my time playing alone. I liked it, it didn't bother me, but it did concern my mother. The thing is, you see though, that very intelligent people NEED to spend alot of time alone, thinking. And I know I have trouble with people who are not very intelligent, usually people who are narrow-minded and don't think logically. For me, they don't exist almost, as someone else said earlier.
I had a hard time making friends and was very shy around strangers. I have always just thought differently and marched to a different tune from others. In the end, though, I did very well. I was a flight attendant and then I got my Master's degree and was a therapist for 15 years. Now, I'm running my own online ezine.
I am married to a wonderful man, who is himself highly intelligent and wonderfully eccentric, I live on a bit of beautiful land with lots of animals and I'm very, very happy. I also have lots of friends, having found a community of other geniuses. Since we think in similar ways and due to the fact that geniuses will tolerate weird, eccentric behavior more than most, we all feel like a family. It would be a good thing if your son could meet other highly intelligent people.
The one thing I would advise for your son, Lombozo, is to give your boy everything he wants in the way of learning and creativity. Get him all the books, games, toys, etc. that will inspire his creativity. HIs brain needs to be constantly engaged, learning new things, or else he will get bored adn that's when behavioral problems start or he becomes very frustrated. He will do much better if his brain is engaged in learning, reasoning, thinking and problem solving. He needs to have as rich an environment as you can provide him. Animals are also excellent companions for autistics. The autistic doesn't have to talk or socialize, but he/she can learn about emotions from animals and form very close bonds, all while they are improving their social skills in some way.
But the best thing, Lombozo, is soemthing you've already given him in spades and that is your infinite love and pride in him. Good job, Lombozo, keep us posted, will you? Your son sounds absolutely fascinating.
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