Older people's need for alliances with younger people, page 1
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Topic started on 28-2-2007 @ 12:32 AM by daltoni
One of the things that's clear to me as an older person (age 58) is the need for alliances with younger people. Recently on an economics blog in which the instability of the global economy was being discussed, someone made a very insightful comment about the need to be aware of what young men do in failed states. In a failed state in which anarchy is the rule, an alliance with young men would be invaluable if the young men are on your side, deadly if they're not.

Such alliances would be asymmetrical, and it probably would not be easy to develop trust. And yet, consider the benefits that might derive from the asymmetry: the older might have assets (such as land and equipment) and knowledge (including technical and scientific knowledge) that the younger might lack, and the younger would have energy and vigor that older people don't have. In former times, family structures were intact enough that different generations in the same family would naturally provide this. But these days it is less likely.

Having bought a few acres of land in the foothills of the Appalachian mountains, with a plan to build on it and live on it within the next year or so, I've given a lot of thought to the vulnerabilities of older people living alone. I will certainly have a big German shepherd and some firearms, and I'm healthy to the point of even being athletic for my age, but to be older in a failed society is to be vulnerable, especially if you have things that others lack.

I'd be curious to hear the point of view of younger people. How many younger people would help and defend an older person in exchange for access to land, shelter, and equipment that the younger person has not yet been able to acquire? And how many young people would just take it?


reply posted on 1-3-2007 @ 07:09 PM by crgintx
If TSHTF, it will effect young people the more than old people. Cut off from cell phones and the internet, the early weeks will drive them mad because of their lack of instant satisfaction. When food becomes an issue, few will know how to grow their own or how/what to hunter-gather in a wilderness area. Even the largest and most aggressive of them have a healthy fear of older folks especially middle-aged males like myself. I had to bounce a much a larger and younger man who was was drunk and become sexual aggressive at a party my niece threw a few years ago. I used my knowledge of martial arts and his own slight hesitation to safely and quickly remove him from the party. He was so shocked that he'd 'manhandled' so efficiently that he was somewhat subdued afterwards. I gave him a ride home to mend fences with him as he was an invited guest of my neice's. With all the new age parenting and schooling these days, few young people have been given the kind of discipline folks in their 40's and 50's these days faced routinely when they were growing up. Intelligent young men and women will 'ally' themselves quickly with older folks. The family unit won't disintegrate overnight. Kids without parents are usually street smart enough to know that criminal gangs end up in prison or dead quickly. Teen and pre-teen males are often want to be considered as men or mature by older males who tend to provide more disciplined environments for them. Girls go where the boys are and vice-versa. If you live alone, it always pays dividends to befriend the local stray or latch-key kids as they are looking for approval from adults.


reply posted on 10-4-2007 @ 11:48 AM by dr_strangecraft
I usually get ignored for saying this in the survival threads, but I'll say it again:

My single most important "survival skill" is my membership at my church and my fraternal associations.

Those folks DO stick together. I have a friend who lived in a town that was hit by a major tornado, downtown. An hour after the storm, everyone in the church who attended sunday school had been checked on. The pastor and elders called each Sunday school teacher, and they went down their attendance sheets and called each family. They reported back the names they couldn't get a phoneline through for, and someone drove to their house (or what was left of it) to look for survivors.

When the Red Cross showed up, they used that church's basement as headquarters, because the building was intact, and each elder that secured his own home sent someone to represent him at the church. So there's a building with a working kitchen, and about 20 volunteers ready to work after the storm.

Notice how, if you were just a visitor, you didn't get called. They honestly didn't think of that. They called the people they knew well, and that was members of their clubs and groups in the church. The plumbers and contractor types showed up to make sure the church was undamaged, and then offered to help anyone who had a hole in a roof or rain pouring into their home. In other words, if you were in the network, your house got saved first. They also helped everyone who came by and asked for help. But think about that; who would go to a church in an emergency, except people who are comfortable there.

Here's a trivial example. When I travel, I hate to use a filthy public restroom. So the three johns I look for are the upper floors of a hospital, upper floors of the local library, and church restrooms. Those three are usually low traffic during the week, and are often cleaned and unused on any given weekday, particularly in the a.m. Church people look at you a little funny, but then you tell them why (and where your home church is) and they smile and nod.

Same with the lodge. Those are people who already have a social network in place. Can you trust them with your life? Well, can you trust your extended family any better?

Social networks, the ones being torn down by our institutions, are the sinews of civilization, and they still exist when the lights go out.

In the last snowstorm, our power went out, and my neighbor drove out to our place with firewood, because he didn't see any smoke coming from our chimney. He figured I was out of firewood. And he goes to a different church, and was on his way to check on fellow members.

In summary, I think the whole "go it alone" mentality will kill off a lot more survivalists than gunfire ever will. Actually, it won't kill them---they'll just go looking for help when the protein bars run out.





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reply posted on 13-5-2007 @ 12:04 AM by slowmovingwalrus
I’ll always put my money on whoever has the most experience, old or young, it doesn’t matter, but I’ll never bet on arrogance because it will get you killed either in the boardroom or in the field, take your pick.

Companies prefer kids with experience because they won’t make needlessly boastful comments to clients and know not only the skills they possess but also their limits so as to keep from screwing up a big account because they can’t see through their own ego.

You better survival by dwelling in a group, working as a team – and no one takes kindly to the ignorant showboat who challenges the proven leaders who can make mature decisions in a pinch. Mature decisions like not needlessly insulting ATS members for example.


Originally posted by MichaelMyers
Here's something I know from experience. Younger people see the world in 2 ways, when faced with a situation X. They see older people as useless, and easy pickings, and younger people like themselfs, as enemies, so they'll be quick to get rid of as many people as possible, to eliminate the fight for items needed.

Sadly, I agree with your observation, though, if sit x should happen the young kids will be too busy fighting amongst each other and 'muscling through' to note the growing size of the elders community and the power of cooperation. So by the time you’ve killed off your competition and are living off of scraps they’ll have a farm or well oiled system in place. I just read a story about some flooding in a town and the rescue workers found many of the elderly in better shape because the younger people were too proud to go out and look for help while the older people banded together and shared supplies. This isn’t a videogame – its life. Going solo could get you killed.

btw - an amusing article:
Advice to Young Men from an Old Man


reply posted on 16-5-2007 @ 11:06 AM by NGC2736
I read through this pretty carefully, as I have long been aware that such a situation might arise. I found some wise observations, and a few daft ones. But I think something is being overlooked.

Sit-X can have many unforeseen components. What at first looks like a short term situation may run much longer, or be even a lifetime in resolving. To survive in the short term of a month or so, will require some skill, but many should be able to handle this portion of a Sit-X, once the overly aggressive ones kill each other off.

It is the medium to long term survival scenes that require the deeper thought. Most here know instinctively that any situation will need some cooperation between young and old, at least during a learning curve. However, once the more youthful have acquired the basic lessons from the elders, the less useful these elders become in the eyes of the younger members.

In a very long term situation, say two plus years, the younger members will have absorbed most of the skills of the older generation, and still retain their youthful advantage in basic strength and stamina. While this will not automatically make the older ones useless, it will change the dynamic social structure between the generations.

In tribal structures of times past, this was offset by wisdom/knowledge that was not divulged to younger members except through controlled methods that were in essence apprenticeships. This type of structuring kept both young and old needing each other.

Just a thought.


reply posted on 18-5-2007 @ 12:00 AM by MichaelMyers
Lmao, it wasn't arrogance, it was knowledge.

I WAS born into poverty, and lived poor until I was roughly 16, give or take.
Raised in a rural setting until I was 12.
2 disabled parents, a totaly monthly income of $1,800, and full blown adult responsibilites by age 11.
Father was a Marine, and became disabled in 1997, due to back injuries, and had to undergo a Spinal Fusion, and 5 other back surgeries.
Mother became disabled 1999, due to Osteoperosis, and 21% bone loss.
So I know all about hard times lol.

Second, I train in MMA (Sambo, and Kick Boxing, now learning Boxing to increase my stand up) and have since I was 18, I'm now 24.
So for any law enforcement personel to get cocky, and say I couldnt take them, is in for a huge surprise.
We get Army boys, Marines, and these junior detectives come into the gym all the time wanting to use the equipment and train.
I've yet to see any of them give us a run for our money.
Just to back that up, look back at UFC before Dana White bought it, there was a Marine who went into it, supposed tough as nails guy, and got his ass whipped in round 1.
Sorry, MMA is where it's at, and my moneys on the fact that myself, or even those more inexperienced than me, would take any cop/marine/army infantry guy, and wipe the floor with em.

Now, as for what I said, it still stands.
Younger people are a huge threat to older people, thats a fact of life.
When your younger, your careless, when your older, your more reserved, or refined.. you value life more.
Do you honestly think a 21yr old would give 2 thoughts about ending your life, and your families, if he needed something you had?
Time to wake up people, America is not only gotten much more cold hearted, but also at an earlier age.
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