posted on Jan, 8 2007 @ 12:21 AM
It will be hard for you at first, but you definitely need to get out of that relationship, there are many people out there that will be much better
for you. I know, because my current girlfriend of 2 and 1/2 years was in the same predicament, the guy she was "with" wasn't physically abusing
her, but he was emotionally abusing her. Telling her that he loved her and always leading her on, he even cheated on her a few times, but she felt
like she was in love.
They were with each other off and on for four years, and when her and i first got together it was tough. We didn't plan on it happening, it just did.
She's over him, and she realized that she was totally oblivious to the truth, she felt stupid at first, but it's not stupidity, when you feel like
you are in love, you become blind at times, because you love that person.
He definitely doesn't sound like marriage material, and he is very lucky that you are not a friend of mine. Any "man" that is willing to hit a
woman isn't worth anybody's time in my opinion.
That's just what i have to say, but as always you have to make your own decision, either way, i wish you the best of luck.
Peace and love,