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Originally posted by Ford Farmer
Why are you stating that homosexual acts are wrong? I am not angry that you "turned on us" , just curious. Do you still find men attractive? or do you just supress all sexual urges.
Originally posted by rocknroll
Originally posted by Ford Farmer
Why are you stating that homosexual acts are wrong? I am not angry that you "turned on us" , just curious. Do you still find men attractive? or do you just supress all sexual urges.
I'm not your judge. I use to play the game, but now I sit on the sidelines and observe. You know it's a tough question? It's one I often ask God.......the big "WHY?" Why do want me to experience my life alone with no one to snuggle up to and love? How can you take my happiness from me? How can you condemn me for what made me feel fulfilled?
I had an 8 year relationship (the last serious one). We loved eachother dearly. I felt he was my soulmate. We had the most quenching, deliriously delicious sex life. I can honestly say it couldn't have gotten any better. It was GREEEEEEAAAATTTTTTT!!!!!!!
But as time went by the lust we cherished started to wane, not because we did anything to make it happen, it just occurs...........what I learned is that lust is earthly, and all earthly things must eventually come to an end..... when our lusts died (which was the glue) the relationship weakened. My partner went outside for sexual satisfaction, hurting me very deeply......and in the end it occurred to me that sexuality became more important then the love and history we built together. This told me something was wrong......
A truly successful relationship requires a few things that gay relationships lack:
To obtain maximum satisfaction, one must build an exclusive relationship with one other person that excludes all others. There is no other way to do it. Affection spread among many people may give short-term pleasure, but such relationships necessarily will be superficial and not satisfying in the long run. A relationship must be exclusive, that is, with just one other person. There is nothing arbitrary about this need for exclusivity: Our nature as human persons requires it. Each partner has to be sure that the other is totally committed. Commitment has two features: intensity and permanence. A halfhearted commitment will not do. Neither will a temporary one. Unless each spouse is confident that the other is committed unconditionally and for life, neither will trust enough to risk self-revelation. But without that, a couple will never achieve mature unity. To be successful, relationships need to be exclusive, unconditional, and permanent. Without these qualities, it will not thrive. People know that love must be exclusive, unconditional, and permanent in order to trust enough. Psychologists never tire of telling us that marriages die for lack of exclusiveness, unconditional mutual acceptance, or commitment to permanence. Couples who fail to develop these features often fail at marriage.
There is also a fourth quality needed for long-term relationship success which gay relationships lack. It is dictated by the nature of the human person. That feature is sexual complementarity. For the deepest unity, you need one man and one woman. These differences matter both spiritually and physically, for without the complementarity between a man and a woman on all these levels, the deepest forms of union are not possible. The unity possible to two men or two women will be necessarily lopsided, both spiritually and anatomically, and therefore ultimately unsatisfying. Two men together cannot capture the fullness of human personhood, and neither can two women; for that, you need one man and one woman. However exclusive, unconditional and permanent same-sex relationships may aspire to be, they lack the complementarity that the deepest fulfillment requires. This fact may explain some of the amazing sexual behavior in the homosexual subculture.
I could go on and on. If you don't believe me ask the Holy Spirit to enlighten you and I'm sure He will (no joke). I don't subscribe to any particular faith right now. I just have my relationship with God and that's it.......
Originally posted by WyrdeOne
I know, I know, you don't think we're animals.
Originally posted by rocknroll
Red Dragon, my beliefs are enlightenments from the Holy Spirit.
All the scientific journals in the world can't hold a candle to His knowledge.
You want understanding of life's deepest mysteries....pray to the Holy Spirit, otherwise you're on your own.
Originally posted by RedDragon
Great, then I can totally disregard everything you just said since it's completely irrational.
while i have nothing against the gays, if there was a shot or a patch like they say, that would prevent my kid from being gay (or retarted, disabled, deformed, or sickly) then i would ask my wife to take the medication. plus if it works after birth, then maybe some people who don't want to be gay could take this and be normal.
Originally posted by Spawwwn
but i think this will only benefit those parents who do not want their children living that lifestyle.
Originally posted by niteboy82
And for just once, I would like to know where in the world all of this bull comes from about gay people getting sex all the time?
Originally posted by rocknroll
Youth and beauty are prized in gay culture. It helps to be good looking (which alot of gay men are - take any straight girl into a gay bar and she'll cry at all the doll baby boys who won't look at her). Check out any gay personals site on the net. If you're young, gay and beautiful you can get sex as often as possible. All you have to do is make yourself available. I had friends that had steady lovers (never monogamous though), but were with 4-5 different men every week. I had other friends that had been with thousands of different men. Live in a big city, go to the bars, festivals, fundraisers, circuit parties, private parties...........eventually you gather a very big circle of friends.........all gay.....it's like being a kid in a candy shop.......depends on how much self-control you have.
Originally posted by niteboy82
I still find you to be stereotyping heavily. I was sitting with my hair stylist today.......
Originally posted by niteboy82
Not to mention what you say at the end of this quote, "depends on how much self-control you have." Bingo! That's what it comes down to! Not whether you're gay or you're straight, but what self-control you have.
Originally posted by schallb
I tried finding on the web once about how many gays said that they were born gay. so far I haven't found any sites. There seems to be NO GENE in the human body that says you will be gay. They had done survies years ago and everyone either was raised around gays, or had been sexually molested as a child or young adult..so unless someone finds a gene there's nothing a mother should take during her 9 months.. enough said= study it and try to find all you can before they make it a damn law so your not wasting your money or making your child an a experiment