a good girl is hard to find, page 2

Dont waste you time looking for a good or nice girl in church...You can find them but just like anywhere eles you can find junk too. Besides church is a place for Faith and communing with the bretheren...not fishing for flesh.
My friend married a woman from church....she turned out to be a predator. Are all women in church like this..no they are not. Just that Church is not a meat market. Dumb Idea. You can do just as good or bad elsewhere.

Also your definitionn of nice girl or good girl...I think there is something very wrong with your view..or angle. Your glasses need cleaning per se.

There are no nice girls or good girls out there there are just girls and women...period..they come in all types and varieties....same for men.

The problem is in your view and the tools you use to sort out the market.

I suggest you do not have the skills to learn or know about leading a woman. YOu know ..leading just like in dancing. Leading..means confidence..and women can spot confidence miles away in the dark..like radar. Most of them respond to confidence.
Women/females tend to be more social and develope social skills at a much younger age. They communicate these skills and use them to sepertate or cull out the weaker men. This is not often a knowlege they are wont to communicate to men. Men do not tend to communicate in the same way or for the same purposes.

As to Barbie dolls...that is fantasy stuff. Life is not fantasy..it requires real hard work..both male and female. Most of the barbie dolls types I've met are high maintenance. NOt worth the trouble unless you are just going to keep them short time. High maintenance means high risks to keep and pay for them. This means you dont have much Peace in your life. Piece will fade quickly in importance when you must take alot of risk to keep a high maintenance woman or girlfriend.

Learn to lead...not be lead by these women or girls. This takes maturity..difficult to accquire at 19 years olde.
Contrary to what is stated in rubbish magazines like Maxim or GQ...being a man in this world is not defined by the gadgets or clothes or cars you purchase. For many women it is often deceptively passed by appearences...verses real knowlege as a woman. The appearence of a good or nice girl or women is very different from being a woman or a girl.
Most men do not learn this at young ages. The key operative word here being "appearence" verses the real deal.

Would also suggest another tack..for a young man. If I may make bold with my words ..I suggest you learn about women by dating older women.
Some of them ..not all but some have made enough mistakes as a younger woman to learn how to better treat a man. Your wisdom and discrection are necessary here. BE careful here because many older women are hunting and gathering men too..before the biology runs out.
Most older women can do more than just microwave...very important to a man who can think. I can microwave...regular cooking too. Learn to enjoy a modicum of Peace..tendered by a woman who does not think from the fast food lane. This is a real blessing for a man who knows. Mind you now many men today do not know. Nor do what passes for women...many of them.
Peace is the valuable commodity a worthy woman brings to a man..not just piece. With or without kids. This requires real commitment from her..not just the appearence of commitment while keeping him jumping to her tunes.
If you know how to lead...you realize you can get piece from any woman...there is no shortage of this out there. Young or olde.

Learn to lead..this takes experience. You do not get this from a spray can or a squeeze tube across the counters.

I suggest to some of you ..that many of the women today are the way they are because the men dont know how to lead anymore. Your ability to lead has been defaulted/hijacked to cheap merchandizing expectations.

Ive heard alot of women asking ..where are all the real men?? They have a valid point.

Learn to lead..

Thanks,
Orangetom