Originally posted by SpeakerofTruth
If it comes, it comes; if it don't, then it just doesn't.
This is exactly how i met my good girl. I wasn't looking for a relationship, wasn't trying to be with anybody, then one day she called me up and we
decided to go to the mall, from then on we just clicked. So this is what i would tell people, just don't try to force it.
Good things come to those who wait, patience is a virtue, blah blah blah. Well, turns out that most of the time that stuff is true.
edit: After reading Rocky6's post i would like to add that from my experience most girls tend to like older guys. That's how my girl was until she
met me, she never really thinks about me as younger though. By the way, I'm 18 until February 2007 and she just turned 20 in October 2006, so there
is a year and a half difference between us.
Don't worry though it will happen when it happens, and there's nothing you can do about it. I'm not saying stop trying all together, just don't
stress so much.
Also, what i did was just thought about what i wanted in a girl, as far as looks, personality, etc. I put a lot of energy into that and sure enough it
happened almost exactly as i hoped, so maybe you could give that a shot.
[edit on 30/12/2006 by 7Pan7cho7]