Families normally have a spiritual guardian which watches over everyone in the family, so it's not unusual for members of a family to experience the same supernatural things etc.
Flying with your mother while a man tries to shake you into the mud? This sounds like another version of the lesson many overselves or guardians give
to their humans. Basically, from my understanding, the being is telling you that you have spiritual powers and can help others around you, however
there are certain beings who work to destroy your higher powers and bring you down to grosser states of existence. Basically the lower beings doing
this are the earth guards, who work to keep souls on the earth plane, by causing chaos and confusion.