posted on Nov, 26 2003 @ 03:25 AM
Was wondering if any other single parents have a rough time dating?
Myself personally, I am very protective of my daughter(who is 4) and will not even introduce her to girls I meet until I believe they will actually be
in her life. I dont want people in and out of my daughters life at all. But it seems that alot of girls are very against dating single guys with kids.
I can understand it a bit, but there just seems to be so many girls that are afraid to date a guy with a kid, I hear that excuse over and over again.
I get a girl that likes me but she gets scared off by the fact that I have a kid. I am 25 now and in college and that makes it even tougher IMO
because the people in college want to work on their own lives and not have to worry about a bf and then have the bf take time away from the gf because
of the kid.
It would be nice to find a girl that has a open mind for once, it's not like she has to be the mother of my daughter, she has a mother. If these
girls actually dated me I would expect them to be my daughters friend and nothing more. Ah well....
Sorry for the rant, it just bothers me. Anywho, I will purge forward. Makes me wanna do this _:bnghd: