I'm about to explode from anger here.
If anyone's been through this, or has any experience with it, please give me some advice.
This is a copy & paste from my journal.
What a day.
As most days do, it all started in the morning.
So my roommate has this stalker.
They were in a relationship of mild seriousness like 4 years ago, but he wasn't happy with it. She became a # buddy - just something to pass the time
when he didn't have anyone/thing better to do.
But the problem is, she's a complete psycho. Infact, that's what everyone calls her behind her back: "psycho bitch." He would try to go out with
other girls, and without fail, this chick would find their phone number/address/email/IM name and cause all sorts of hell.
I'm not exaggerating. I saw the # she sent to the last girl he was involved with. Pissed me off, too, because this girl is a friend of mine . Well,
their relationship ended (the roomie and non-psycho girl).
Roomie would try to be nice and be "friends" with the psycho-girl, and when the mood struck him use her for meaningless sex.
About a month ago or thereabouts, the whole thing just got to be too much. He got sick of her calling and hanging up when someone answered, so we put
a block on the phone. He got sick of her emailing and IMing him constantly, so he cancelled his AOL account.
Then he makes the apparently grevious mistake of starting to see this other girl.
I don't know how psycho-bitch found out about her. Only a few people know who this new girl is, and the extent of their "friendship." But somehow,
she found out.
Then all the sudden, I start getting these #ing e-cards. Of course, they've got these made up return email addys on 'em, but am I NOT supposed to
know they're from this psycho bitch?? "No one can contact (roomie's name), his friends are worried about him." Well, no, you silly #, YOU'RE the
only one who can't contact him. Everyone else can call him or email his real email addy. "His new girlfriend has AIDS" "(girl's name) is a slut
and sleeps with drug users. Someone needs to tell (roomie) to go to his doctor." And I'm serious, I really got e-cards saying this #!! It's a pain
in my ass, because now she's dragged me into this mess -- even if every e-card I get is met with a big "DELETED!"
It's bad enough that half the people in our #ing apartment complex let us know how often they see her skulking around the parking lot at night.
It's bad enough she's followed us out to the club, straight into the parking lot - like nobody would see her?? Like we aren't friends with most of
the bouncers there??
But then this morning happened.
This new girl called early in the morning.
#ing psycho-bitch had left a #ing NOTE on this girl's car. "I'm (roomie's) girlfriend, I've been his girlfriend for 4 years, you better stay
away" blah blah blah. She somehow found out where this girl lives, drove her pathetic ass over sometime last night and left a threatening note on the
So now what? Police?