posted on Feb, 28 2007 @ 03:58 PM
So Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, a woman that wants to have sex 20 times a day, and the Tooth Fairy are all in a footrace. Who wins?
None of them. Why?
BECAUSE NONE OF THEM REALLY EXIST!
Ahem, I digress...
Actually, I've seen much discussion that says premarital sex is not forbidden by Christianity:
In biblical times there was nothing wrong with a married man having as many wives as he could afford, concubine and "common" prostitutes. Adultery
was only wrong for a married women, since it violated her husbands property (and sexual) rights over her and his other wives or concubines.
Sex is natural, and (if you believe in such things) just another part of God's gifts to you. Take the opportunity, enjoy it.
Maybe you do only want this girl for her body... maybe not. Your desire for her is certainly clouding your judgment. I mean, c'mon... you called her
the 'Whore of Babylon'. And said she 'molested' you. An 18 year old... please.
Personally, if you're this uptight, I'm willing to bet that she is poking fun at you.
Try this... return some of her 'affection'. Kiss her, grope her back, whatever... that's nothing serious. Certainly, you won't 'burn' for
something so tame. If she's messing with you, she'll back off and leave you alone right then. Case solved.
If she genuinely wants you, then you have a decision to make... so make it. And make it with her. Be open and honest with her.