posted on Nov, 28 2006 @ 09:53 PM
Originally posted by an3rkist
For the past two years I have been in love. This person knows I'm in love with her, even though I haven't told her.
WTF are you waiting for?
I know that she does not love me back, even though she hasn't told me. We're very good friends, by the way.
I think I have this uncanny feeling that if she doesn't actually tell me that she's not in love with me that I will not be able to move on
with my life.
IF you don't, you're going to regret it. BUT, if you do, it might cause problems with your friendship.
As far as it being a risk, that kinda thing is allways a risk. There isn't much you can do by keeping quite about it. If its how you feel, and this
person is a good friend, then, even if they don't feel the same, they should be able to still be comfortable with you.
And if you KNOW that she doesn't feel the same, WHY AREN'T you looking for someone else?? There's almost certainly another girl out there that you
will feel just as strongly about, if ya open your eyes.
well if i hang in there and sacrifice and make myself availble eventually she will see me for the great catch i am, they do not work that
I agree with this part of what you are saying. Things aren't going to magically change of their own accord, or because you've been 'suffering'
along the way. Either way, you've got to move on, either don't tell her, because it might be a problem, or do and get rejected, but either way,
start looking somewhere else. Assuming, again, that she isn't actually interested.