You know in this time and age the living in sin
rhetoric brings me back to when I was growing up and the church kept telling us teens how
sinful was fornication.
Times has change, people wants to keep their independence and this means money wise and have the flexibility to pull out of a long term relationship
without the paper work or court struggles like in a divorce.
The statistics show that adult women are having children and single but many of this women may be in long term relationships and they are not alone
I will use my younger brother and his wife for example.
They relationship lasted 7 seven years, she had her own business he had his own full time job and a business also on the side.
But had their own bank accounts and own life.
They got married after she became pregnant with their first child, why they waited that long?
They said it was no needed at the time, they marry because of the baby and the pressure from my family and her family.
Both of them were in their late 20s when they marry.
Now they are successful, they have three children and have been marry for 10 years.
I do not blame the behavioral problems of children to divorce alone, I was a teacher
and the children were gifted children or more simple
above average IQ, many from very influential homes, professional parents even a senators daughter I had.
I will tell you that this children's compare to the regular children's were the ones that gave me the most trouble in the class room.
I never had a fight in my classroom from the regular curriculum and with this group. . . I have my first one, and it was not pretty.
After been in the school system I will say that it doesn't matter children are the same when it comes to behavioral problems be from marry church
going families or divorce, still church going parents.