posted on Sep, 18 2006 @ 11:29 PM
Ok, I'm getting really frustrated and I just need some place to vent. Here goes...
I met this guy 6 1/2 years ago. He liked me, I didn't, and he knew it. So I met another guy through him (now my husband) and ever since this guy has
done nothing but lie about me behind my back and try and convince my husband to leave me ( I think he just couldn't stand us being together).
Anyway, about a year later this guy gets married. I meet his wife and really wanted to be her friend as we had a lot in common. Whenever I would try
to talk to her, she would agressively walk away and start arguing with her husband. I later found out he had told his wife I was "obsessed" with him
and "in love" with him, which of course, was not ever true. In reality, he was approaching me privately and suggesting we leave our significant
others for each other, and I was absolutely disgusted but didn't tell my husband as I didn't want to upset him or cause conflict with his friend.
When I turned him down, again, he started spreading lies to mutual friends, playing the victim and lying about myself and my husband's relationship.
My husband and I lost a few friends because of it.
Three years later, I had enough and told this guy to stop coming around. He became very angry, started coming over when I wasn't home, pleading with
my husband to leave me. My husband told him to leave and never come over again.
Ever since, these people have been driving by my apartment when I'm outside, honking their horns and shouting, flipping me off. The guy has gone into
my husband's work, crying, and again asking him to leave me, and lyiing and saying that he "hears I'm cheating on him".
Not to long ago they decided to move across the street from us (this is a pretty big city). They've been hanging out with the people in my apartment
building, and my husband asked our neighbors to not have these people disturb us, to which they agreed as they didn't want any conflict.
Just last week I started getting messages on myspace from this guy (I don't know how he found me, as my name is not on there anywhere, and neither is
my picture, and I put in a fake name in the search). He's sent me over a dozen messages in the past few days and they are becoming increasingly
agressive "tell your husband I said f off for not talking to me!" and "don't worry, i'm not going to kill you". He then forwarded a message to
myself and some of my friends calling me names, talking about how angry his, cussing us out, etc.
So, I ignored the messages, didn't reply and blocked him. I found out from one of our mutual friends he is blogging about me and my husband's
relationship, how "empty" it is, how we are only together because we are physically attracted to each other, etc. His wife is also blogging about
how her husband is crying every night about it, how no one likes me, how I "stole" my husband from her husband, how her husband wants to die because
of it, and begging my husband to divorce me.
I don't know what to do. My husband works nights, so I take him to work and pick him up while it's still dark, and I'm home alone in my apartment
all night. And like I said, these people are hanging out in my apartment building now and live across the street. I'm scared one night I'm going to
The worst part is, is these people are 26 years old and have to kids, one of which has a disability. I cannot fathom why they are harrassing me, I
haven't provoked them in any way and haven't spoken to them in 3 years.
Sorry this was so long. I just don't know what to do.
[edit on 9/18/2006 by Pink_Cola]