The fact that you didn't have sex at that age means that your assumption that you were 'ready'.. is only an assumption. If you had've [with an
adult].. the only context it would've been in would've been predatory as adults who are willing to seduce children are pedos in a position of
No, I consciously chose not to, there were times where I had the
chance with people my age (at the time), a few years older than
me, and one adult whom I knew would'nt be against it, and no I'm
not going into that, as it's no ones business.
Having periods does not an indication of sexual maturity.. it is the one of begginning signs of sexual development. It's not a green light.
Ok, I admit I forgot to mention this part, I was tying it in with the
My grandmother became active at 14, my neighbor at 12, I know
this because my grandparents were very open about things when I
would ask, and because my neighbors room is right next to mine,
and I can hear..
I've watched lots of movies so know the basics of flying planes too but I'm quite sure I'd crash if I tried.
If your assuming I based my knowledge by watching pornography,
well I was 14 the first time I saw porn, I asked people about it,
and read about it, that's how I knew about it.
As in either that a child could have sex with an adult? If so could you please explain how a child could freely consent to someone when adults hold a
position of authority over them? You are being vague.. if you are going to express opinions please be clear.
The older individual would'nt be holding any position of power in the circumstances, I'm totally against coersion, and that kind if thing,
it would'nt be some secret.
Please be clearer with your answers.
If I was any clearer about that, I'd be violating the T&C.
I agree.. but not when it comes to sex. You have to have a certain level of physical and emotional sexual maturity [adolescence] to comprehend it.
Aside from your assertions about yourself about sexuality.. how can you make claims about what most children a capable of understanding? What do you
base this on?
And that level is diferent with each individual, in some cases it may
not be until the late teens, in others it may be in the pre-teens.
By listening to people, and because I have a few younger cousins
who have come to me to answer questions they were to embaressed
to ask there parents, adn there friends only know about as much as
And when I say young, I mean 10-13.
And they tend to have a good basic knowledge as it is, and I generally
only have to fill in a few small indiscrepencies here and there.
And Grady, thank you.
[edit on 9/19/2006 by iori_komei]