Your answers are what I expected, but I wanted to be sure....
First off, remember, this is only one interpretation....
Okay, this isn't regression. Sounds like, from what you've learned from your dreams....you're now thinking about what it would be like if she were
in your life today (hence the appearance, even if altered, of things you see every day, the bus, the tables, friends, etc.). This is a furthering of
Dream #5...(a sequel if you will).
However, as much as you are looking for her to be there, you also remember the jealousy (from Dream #2.) (Likely, in that life, the other man was
someone you trusted, and you felt more than jealousy, but betrayal, to be such a strong impression). So, on one level, you also desire to pay her
back (play with her heart) and it's a conflict of emotions....so your mind is trying to resolve the conflict in your dreams.
I still can't help but feeling that you've either already met her, (and didn't realize it at the time), or will meet her soon. Remember, soulmates
don't always end up as lovers in each incarnation...sometimes it can be a close relative even instead...but someone close to you. In your case
though, it seems that she is maintaining her appearance in this incarnation....(whether you believe in this stuff or not...it doesn't require your
belief to be so...

) and she is looking for you too.
The next time you dream dream #2, try and go in deeper both before and after the events you remember...look closer, try to learn more, and you may
start to get your answers.... Really involve yourself...try and smell the theatre (smell is a great memory tool), hear the sounds, etc. Lucidity
will help the other details come into focus.....