I have a wonderful lady and I love her like crazy. For her birthday our female employees pooled some money and bought her a massage. I was happy for
her, she does so much for everyone else and rarely has time to do things for herself. It's called "The Raindrop Massage", they use 9 different
essential oils dripped slowly while being massaged. It must feel awesome.
As my GF was talking about it to her friends, most
of them said "and Gary (me) is going to let you go alone for that?". To me it's a
non-issue but these women knew for a fact that their guy wouldn't let them go alone and have a massage.
One of the women works at a video store and her boyfriend sometimes sits in his car across the street watching her just in case she gets too friendly
with a guy customer.
What's wrong with guys these days? They're so untrusting and say and do such stupid stuff that they drive their lady away. And then they say "See,
I couldn't trust her."
Guys, if your lady says she loves you give her some respect. Not trusting her and treating her like a child is just going to make her leave eventually
Then there are the guys that pretty much keep a woman captive, alienate her from her friends and family, don't let her do anything without him....
Those ladies normally either leave, get beat up by him, or die by his hands. That statement isn't from any statistics that I read, just things I've
observed going on around me.
Come on guys, lighten up. She's with you for a reason. Be her equal and you will have the best relationship you've ever had.
But on the other hand, I also know a couple where the lady beats the guy so bad that he cries. They're married but don't have any kids. He takes all
of that and doesn't leave her.
I'm a guy, but I know I'll never understand guys.... LOL
Lets hear some comments......