it all boils down to the simple fact women don't know what they want. subconciously EVERY woman wants the knight in shining armor who's soft as
cotton. but then they realize, he's too nice or too weak. so they move on to the macho thug/jock/asshole type. then they realize that he's either a
player, wants to control every aspect of the realationship, or a coldhearted little coward who has no respect for women and only wants one to lie to
and # her brains out (as well as all her friends). again women don't know what they want, and they can be if not are, the most difficult creatures to
figure out. ill explain why.
1.
women want. just as i said. women are always wanting and needing SOMETHING. refer back to the two types of dudes they're usually involved with or
after. as soon as one type starts to turn her off, she'll tell all her girlfreinds that she literally needs and wants the other type. and if they're
not needin and wantin the opposite type of man they're involved with or just got dumped by, it's either a tampon, hair appointment, make up, nails,
clothes etc. basically the female brain never rests because it is always saying i need this or i want that!
2.
women are never satisfied. they bore easily. they crave danger and excitement and drama and spontaneity. again refer back to the 2 main types they're
usually huntin for. the softy can't provide danger because he'd prolly be too scared to woop another guys' ass for hittin on her. instead he will
just always try to talk # out. and that's a turn off cuz women love to see another man scrap for her. however he can provide excitment and
spontaneity. the softy is always talking to her about what he's gonna do for her and where he's gonna take her and that gets her all excited. he
also more often than not, gives her cash, gifts, kisses etc outta the blue. that covers the spontaneity. the hard ass can only provide danger cuz when
he takes her for a ride, he usually drives very fast and when another man tries to spit game to her, he beats him down. but both can provide drama.
women love to occasionally start up the psuedo im pissed cuz i think your lying, cheating etc argument. even when they've assured her that they're
not, or even when she herself knows they're not, she'll bring this back up because it adds a little drama. and women CANT live without it.
3. women (unless they're butch dykes or just really tough) are queens by nature. it's common gender roles. a little boy hurts himself and reports it
to his parents. momma tells him it'll be ok and dad tells him to suck it up. but when it's a girl momma kisses it and makes it better and daddy hugs
her to death then buys her ice cream.
4
and finally, women have NO willpower. yea it's been said they're superior mentally but you'll find that's bull# when you come across the countless
number of women who CANNOT figure out what shoes they want to wear because they have so many, or when they're day goes down hill cuz they don't feel
pretty. they can't ride things out. why? see number 3. this sums up why women don't know what they want, and why they're hard as hell to
understand.
yes, i too was a loser with no game, the epitome of nice guys finish last, and one of the dudes who was always around a buncha women, but could never
figure em out. but i got game now. where from? check out the pimp game from amazon and the countless other books that explain the insane
psychological proccess of the female brain. and if you catch flack from women about readin books to help your game, know that those are the same women
who are out to manipulate and lie to you.
women hate nice guys, page 5
reply posted on 24-8-2006 @ 09:16 AM by dr_strangecraft
Basically, this is competition for a scarce resource (quality females).
The way you win, is you size up your competition (other males in play), and figure out what they are doing that works or doesn't work. Which is what this thread is about, in a way.
Now, the second phase is, you study the goal (melding with females) and find ways to SET YOURSELF APART from the rest of your competitors.
As an example, I enjoy deer hunting. But I'm unable to be there for the opening day of the season. As the season progresses, the deer are more retiring, and saturation of hunting sites occurs.
But you know what, I have still taken a buck on PUBLIC LAND, near the end of the season. How? Because I learned that 80% of bucks are shot withing a quarter mile of a road so, I SET MYSELF APART by moving away from the road, and got a buck within an hour and a half. . . .
Deer hunting is different than finding a mate, but the pressures are similar; your success depends in part on the behavior of the prey (human females) as well as upon the behavior of your competitors (other eligible males).
The only way you can hope to succeed is by changing the rules of the game. Present yourself in a way that lets you stand apart from the rest of the young men.
If I were "on the make,". . . . one of the things I notice is that young men today seldom actually ask a woman out on a date any more. They speak of their exploits as if they had, but it's not the case.
Asking a woman to a drinking party at your friends house is not a date.
Asking a woman to come to your house and watch you play video games is not a date.
Asking a woman you just met, to come to your apartment is not a date.
Now, asking a woman to go to a movie with you is a date, but it is the only one other men can think of, and is the most over-used dating agenda in the book. It's analogous to hunting deer next ot a paved road.
Worse, it hides your assets.
You want to pick an activity that retails your suitability to the mating prospect. Sitting alone with her in a dark, loud place (theater), is not the way to get it done. Pick an activity where she can confirm that you are not an axe murderer, and have some social skills.
I have recommended before, in these types of threads, that you invite a young lady to an event that she might have some interest in, apart from the date itself. Public events like symphony, museums, art exhibits, botanical gardens etc. are inexpensive, and put the two of you in a setting where you can use your conversational skills to impress her with your suitability as a genetic donor.
The women who have no outside interests in art, music, or nature, are generally unsatisfactory coupling partners, in my experience. (Basically, if you're looking for a companion for the solely athletic component of reproduction, you can find that in a bar, by wearing expensive clothes and throwing some money around.)
But the females that are most enjoyable as partners have a wide variety of claimants to choose from. So it's up to you to be the ONE that stands out from the pack. ONCE you have already done this, THEN AND ONLY THEN is it time for her to be shown that you are in fact a nice guy.
This has all been covered in my thread How to find Women (and helping them find you). Especially my last 3 posts or so, are the KEY that can get you a real live girl, ALONE IN YOUR ROOM.
But alas, most men would rather complain, that to change their fate. But it's like my old friend Andy Dufresne, used to say:
all the best.
(edit for italics)
[edit on 24-8-2006 by dr_strangecraft]
The way you win, is you size up your competition (other males in play), and figure out what they are doing that works or doesn't work. Which is what this thread is about, in a way.
Now, the second phase is, you study the goal (melding with females) and find ways to SET YOURSELF APART from the rest of your competitors.
As an example, I enjoy deer hunting. But I'm unable to be there for the opening day of the season. As the season progresses, the deer are more retiring, and saturation of hunting sites occurs.
But you know what, I have still taken a buck on PUBLIC LAND, near the end of the season. How? Because I learned that 80% of bucks are shot withing a quarter mile of a road so, I SET MYSELF APART by moving away from the road, and got a buck within an hour and a half. . . .
Deer hunting is different than finding a mate, but the pressures are similar; your success depends in part on the behavior of the prey (human females) as well as upon the behavior of your competitors (other eligible males).
The only way you can hope to succeed is by changing the rules of the game. Present yourself in a way that lets you stand apart from the rest of the young men.
If I were "on the make,". . . . one of the things I notice is that young men today seldom actually ask a woman out on a date any more. They speak of their exploits as if they had, but it's not the case.
Asking a woman to a drinking party at your friends house is not a date.
Asking a woman to come to your house and watch you play video games is not a date.
Asking a woman you just met, to come to your apartment is not a date.
Now, asking a woman to go to a movie with you is a date, but it is the only one other men can think of, and is the most over-used dating agenda in the book. It's analogous to hunting deer next ot a paved road.
Worse, it hides your assets.
You want to pick an activity that retails your suitability to the mating prospect. Sitting alone with her in a dark, loud place (theater), is not the way to get it done. Pick an activity where she can confirm that you are not an axe murderer, and have some social skills.
I have recommended before, in these types of threads, that you invite a young lady to an event that she might have some interest in, apart from the date itself. Public events like symphony, museums, art exhibits, botanical gardens etc. are inexpensive, and put the two of you in a setting where you can use your conversational skills to impress her with your suitability as a genetic donor.
The women who have no outside interests in art, music, or nature, are generally unsatisfactory coupling partners, in my experience. (Basically, if you're looking for a companion for the solely athletic component of reproduction, you can find that in a bar, by wearing expensive clothes and throwing some money around.)
But the females that are most enjoyable as partners have a wide variety of claimants to choose from. So it's up to you to be the ONE that stands out from the pack. ONCE you have already done this, THEN AND ONLY THEN is it time for her to be shown that you are in fact a nice guy.
This has all been covered in my thread How to find Women (and helping them find you). Especially my last 3 posts or so, are the KEY that can get you a real live girl, ALONE IN YOUR ROOM.
But alas, most men would rather complain, that to change their fate. But it's like my old friend Andy Dufresne, used to say:
You either get busy livin', or get busy dyin'.
all the best.
(edit for italics)
[edit on 24-8-2006 by dr_strangecraft]
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