posted on Aug, 14 2006 @ 11:25 PM
DO YOU CLOSE THE BLINDS
The other day, my nine-year-old son wanted to know why we were at war. My husband looked at our son and then looked at me. My husband and I were in
the Army during the Gulf War and we would be honored to serve and defend our country again today. I knew that my husband would give him a good
explanation. My husband thought for a few minutes and then told my son to go stand in our front living room window.
He said, "Son, stand there and tell me what you see."
"I see trees and cars and our neighbors' houses," he replied.
"Okay, now I want you to pretend that our house and our yard is the United States of America and you are President Bush."
Our son giggled and said, "Okay."
"Now son, I want you to look out the window and pretend that every house and yard on this block is a different country," my husband said.
"Okay, Dad, I'm pretending."
"Now I want you to stand there and look out the window and pretend you see Saddam come out of his house with his wife, he has her by the hair and is
hitting her. You see her bleeding and crying. He hits her in the face, he throws her on the ground, then he starts to kick her to death. Their
children run out and are afraid to stop him. They are screaming and crying, they are watching this but do nothing because they are kids and they are
afraid of their father. You see all of this, son... what do you do?"
"What do you do son?"
"I'd call the police, Dad."
"Okay. Pretend that the police are the United Nations. They take your call. They listen to what you know and saw but they refuse to help. What do you
do then son?"
"Dad... but the police are supposed to help!" My son started to whine.
"They don't want to son, because they say that it is not their place or your place to get involved and that you should stay out of it," my husband
"But Dad... he killed her!" my son exclaimed.
"I know he did, but the police tell you to stay out of it. Now I want you to look out that window and pretend you see our neighbor, who you're
pretending is Saddam, turn around and do the same thing to his children."
"Daddy... he kills them?"
"Yes son, he does. What do you do?"
"Well, if the police don't want to help, I will go and ask my next-door neighbor to help me stop him," our son said.
"Son, our next-door neighbor sees what is happening and refuses to get involved as well. He refuses to open the door and help you stop him," my
"But Dad, I NEED help! I can't stop him by myself!"
"WHAT DO YOU DO SON?"
Our son started to cry.
"Okay, no one wants to help you. The man across the street saw you ask for help and saw that no one would help you stop him. He stands taller and
puffs out his chest. Guess what he does next son?"
"He walks across the street to the old lady’s house and breaks down her door and drags her out, steals all her stuff and sets her house on fire and
then... he kills her. He turns around and sees you standing in the window and laughs at you. WHAT DO YOU DO?"
"WHAT DO YOU DO?"
Our son was crying, and he looked down and whispered, "I'd close the blinds, Daddy."
My husband looked at our son with tears in his eyes and asked him. "Why?"
"Because Daddy, the police are supposed to help people who need them and they won't help. You always say that neighbors are supposed to HELP
neighbors, but they won't help either. They won't help me stop him. I'm afraid. I can't do it by myself, Daddy. I can't look out my window and
just watch him do all these terrible things and do nothing, so I'm just going to close the blinds so I can't see what he's doing, and I'm going to
pretend that it is not happening."
I started to cry. My husband looked at our nine-year-old son standing in the window, looking pitiful and ashamed at his answers to my husband's
questions and he says, "Son."
"Open the blinds because that man is at your front door. WHAT DO YOU DO?"
My son looked at his father, anger and defiance in his eyes. He balled up his tiny fists and looked his father square in the eyes. Without hesitation,
he said: "I DEFEND MY FAMILY, DAD!! I'M NOT GONNA LET HIM HURT MOMMY OR MY SISTER, DAD!!! I'M GONNA FIGHT HIM, DAD, I'M GONNA FIGHT HIM!!!!!"
I saw a tear roll down my husband's cheek, and he grabbed our son to his chest and hugged him tight and said; "It's too late to fight him; he's
too strong and he's already at YOUR front door, son. You should have stopped him BEFORE he killed his wife and his children and the old lady across
the way. You have to do what's right, even if you have to do it alone, before it’s too late. That scenario I just gave you is why we are at war
with Iraq. When good men stand by and let evil happen, son, THAT is the greatest evil. All the atrocities in the world won't move them. YOU MUST
NEVER BE AFRAID TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT, EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO DO IT ALONE! BE PROUD TO BE AN AMERICAN! BE PROUD OF OUR TROOPS! SUPPORT THEM! SUPPORT
AMERICA SO THAT IN THE FUTURE OUR CHILDREN WILL NEVER HAVE TO CLOSE THEIR BLINDS."