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Originally posted by jsobecky
As for comments I've made toward you, what comments are you referring to?
I can't tell if you are playing dumb, or you really don't get what I'm saying. I can type slower, if that would help...
And you're being naive by believing that what comes from a man's mouth is the truth.
Hey Zedd, I thought you were going to put an end to these petty insults???
And please don't just play the victim - either provide examples or leave those comments out of the discussion.
No, most studies begin with a quest for knowledge and answers.
Originally posted by jsobecky
And where did I state that the hiring process is exclusively subjective or objective?
Originally posted by jsobecky
I have known many union workers, and some of the most sought-after were men of color, because of their skills. It had nothing to do with skin color. Any other criteria used to choose your crew is bound to cost more money, and that's not why people are in business.
donwhite's assertion implies that skin color *always* plays a difference.
Originally posted by ceci2006
Why is it when whites feel as if they are against the wall, the first thing they reach for in their bag of tricks is to throw out "behaviorial issues"?
Originally quoted by karby
as far as this goes, on a personal level between myself and other americans, black AND white, it's to a point now where nobody can tell where i'm from unless they see my name. then and ONLY then will they begin to ask questions. it kinda blows me out a little bit that people will actualy look for a difference when one isn't so readily available.
Really the only thing i can do is try to educate bit by bit. and that's fine with me.
In my eyes, african struggles are a lot more complicated than black American ones. many africans from other countries that i have met usually blame the struggles of their respective countries on three things: colonialism, the corrupt leaders in power, and the lack of an oppurtunity to a decent education.
. I think that black americans have it a little bit eaiser, because many things are available to them. not readily, but available in the country. back in high school, the amount of quarterly honor roll students could literally be counted on one hand. unless you are able to obtain a private education or tutor, DC public schools don't give a damn about you as a student.
black americans do have the choice, in that the materials are there but it takes a lot of self motivation, especially for inner city kids. and it just gets to a point where it's so complicated that not even i can figure it out. the only thing i can say is that i will take myself one day at a time. and anyone who i can help or educate along the way, i'll be more than willing to do so.
Definitely Mandela. this guy got locked up for years and still they couldn't silence him. that strikes a chord with me. i like that
Immigration, i think, is a sticky issue for me. i'm not against immigration, being a child of immigrants myself. at the same time though, (and i'm sorry to keep raising the same ol' tired issue with mom and dad, but that's really the only direct perspective of immigration that i have immediate access to.) both my parents came here almost before the close of the major civil rights era, in 1968 as teens. and the attitudes against black people were practically no different than they were at the beginning of the decade, according to my dad.
So imagine being black, almost penniless, with absolutely no possesions but the clothes on your back in a foreign country, with the majority of the people looking down on you as scum. and they had to do it the hard way. and not just them either. plenty of others. for me it's a double edged sword. on one hand i recognize the poverty and misery that many hope immigration can help them escape. and on the other hand, i have to realize that other people have had it worse, yet didn't resort to the "illegal" process. yes, they are suffering. but so are many others. why have special provisions only because they immigrated by way of land/walking/driving/etc? why not try your hand at legal immigration like everone else?
Originally quoted by karby
Because of the way i grew up, i put up with a lot of racism when i was a child, from both kids and adults. some of it from whites, but 90% of the racism i experienced when i was young came from other black people. when i wanted to identify with that group, i was literally told "You're not one of 'us'. " i didn't want to be identified as 'African" because 'Africans' were "dirty, ugly and disgusting". i couldn't be "African-American" because "you're from Africa, so you're not American", according to one of my teachers. i didn't understand it. so i could never identify with that group. i wasn't born in Nigeria, so i wasn't Nigerian, i didn't wan to be African, and couldn't be "African-American" no matter how hard i tried.
Iconsider myself an "African Black" because after all i've experienced, these were the only people that would accept me. my parents, my relatives, their relatives, etc. alll accepted me. and the deeprer i dug, the more i saw that i had more in tune with them than i had with my own peers. so i distanced myself from my peers even more.
I stated in an earlier post that i had rejected hip-hop/"cool" culture because of the way that they portray different shades of black women. well, it had actually gotten to a point where i had just cut mainstream out all together. i still don't watch tv. i'd rather sit outside in the middle of nature than go shopping. i'm an avid video gamer. i love math. my music tastes just fly all over the place. i'd much rather be associated with africans because they seemed to be more accepting of me to lend me their culture. it took me a while, but i accepted them back. and by the time it had gotten to a point where i could actually have another black person not give me a dirty look or mean words because of my ethnicity, i guess it was already too late, as i had already made up my mind.
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
I can't tell if you are playing dumb, or you really don't get what I'm saying. I can type slower, if that would help...
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
OTOH, what were you implying?
Originally posted by jsobecky
I think it's pretty clear. You don't speak for everyone. He was not everybody's idea of an American hero.
Clear enough?
No. If you're trying to say something, come right out and say it. Jeez...
And you're being naive by believing that what comes from a man's mouth is the truth.
That's two insulting, unneccesary and, most importantly, off-topic comments in one message.
"Play the victim?" You are too much... really. No wonder Ceci thinks you're prejudiced. A black woman calls you out for your bad behavior, and I'm "playing the victim"?
For someone who's not a mod, you spend a lot of time moderating the discussion.
Why don't we leave that to the actual moderators?
Originally posted by HarlemHottie
from jso
donwhite's assertion implies that skin color *always* plays a difference.
And then you claim that employers decide who will benefit the company the most, objectively picking the employee most likely to produce the most/highest quality widgets in the shortest time.
So, yes, that statement directly contrasts with what you said a few pages ago. Would you care to explain the change?
To me, you are "one of us".
Originally posted by ceci2006
Why is it when some whites feel as if they are against the wall...
...
Can they [blacks] be a little "angry" or "offended" at the comments made by whites without it being a total breakdown of the Black's personality?
So please think before you ever apply any behaviorial analysis on anyone of us.
And believe me, in this thread, there are a lot of assessments of personality that need to be made. I can think of a few borderline cases of Narcissistic Personality Disorder off the top of my head right now. Well, then again, severe.
Originally posted by ceci2006
That is why I apologized in advance because I knew that it might be offensive ...
It is just unfortunate that others do not share your ability to speak to people with respect and kindness and that is sad.
Originally posted by jsobecky
In a perfect world, employees would be chosen on the basis of merit every time. But that is not the reality, is it? Affirmative Action said we can't do that anymore.