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And there are people in this world that aren't that courageous enough.
Originally quoted by nextguyinlineIt's not my intention to interupt the priviledge debate but I wanted to address something else. And I wouldn't mind exploring myself deeper with this issue. Nor is it my intention to be abrasive or insensitive.
I have noticed (or believe I have noticed) and am plagued myself with the stigma of racism over alot of white folk. I think that these people are often misunderstood as being racist or more so than they may be. It can be very uncomfortable in the company of black folk sometimes, being white. Sometimes this uncomfortableness (that word was hard to type) can be IMO misinterepted as arrogance, which is a large element of racism. Sometimes you can sense the anger, resentment and disappointment in your company and that combined with the already present uncomfortableness is alot to deal with. Most people just try to get away; adding to the
misunderstanding. I think it's a terrible cycle. In fact I experienced today. It sucks and I deal with it.
A point to white priviledge. I was just thinking, and remember I agree that these priviledges exist, as a white folk, how does one know for certain they are recieving such a priviledge.
Is it always when whites deal with whites, no exceptions?
The only solid way I can think of knowing for sure is asking and/or being told you are. Take the workplace for example. If I'm offered a job, should one of the questions I ask be if they had interviewed a black applicant, and if that applicant was better suited for the
position was I offered it because of being white? These are truly sincere questions.
Originally posted by nextguyinline
Take the workplace for example. If I'm offered a job, should one of the questions I ask be if they had interviewed a black applicant, and if that applicant was better suited for the position was I offered it because of being white? These are truly sincere questions.
Originally posted by ceci2006
I decided to concoct a list of "so-called" privileges experienced by Black people based on their treatment in society...
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the proportion of black professionals and managers has doubled since 1960; also, black poverty - as measured by the joint Center for Political and Economic Studies - has declined by nearly one-half.
Racial prejudice will probably always exist in some form. But more and more blacks today realize that discrimination is no excuse for failure.
"Whitey's not holding blacks down," says John H. Johnson, founder of Johnson Publishing Co. "It is the fear of failure that gets in the way."
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Marcus Aurelius said, "A man's life is what his thoughts make of it."
Source
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Well, I got about half way down your list and knowing that I have experienced about half of the ones I read, I can't give much credence to it as a 'black-only' thing. These are things people experience. You insist on separation by race. But if you need to think that only blacks experience them, you go right on.
64)To sit in a theatre or an auditorium and have an entire row to yourself.
Originally posted by ceci2006
I have noticed (or believe I have noticed) and am plagued myself with the stigma of racism over alot of white folk. I think that these people are often misunderstood as being racist or more so than they may be. It can be very uncomfortable in the company of black folk sometimes, being white. Sometimes this uncomfortableness (that word was hard to type) can be IMO misinterepted as arrogance, which is a large element of racism. Sometimes you can sense the anger, resentment and disappointment in your company and that combined with the already present uncomfortableness is alot to deal with. Most people just try to get away; adding to the
misunderstanding. I think it's a terrible cycle. In fact I experienced today. It sucks and I deal with it.
It is not just around Black folk. I think that you feel that way around anyone that is different than yourself. I truly believe that you have to make an effort to cut the tension by being yourself and exuding friendliness.
Above that, I understand your uneasiness. I have felt it among white folk on many occasions. Although I do not sense a hostility so much for myself being there; instead it is just quiet, arrogant indifference. Those situations are rather intimidating. But, I just have to wing it sometimes and just make myself known. Sometimes it works. Other times it doesn't. Just don't show fear.
Now, this isn't the case when I am among people I know. When I am the only black in a group of white people I know in the "real world", I still feel a bit uneasy (that is because I am not very vocal. And plus, I am shy.)but, we are able to to have fun and talk because they know me. And I am respected and welcomed. That is the difference.
It does suck. But to be honest, you have to just get out there and talk to people. There will be others that will talk to you. And then, that will eliminate some of the misgivings that others have.
I don't think that simply because you are just a "white person in a room" that other Black people are so hateful, resentful and angry. I think that sometimes you have to put your perceptions on the shelf and just go for it. That's what I do when I go into different neighborhoods and experience other cultures. I ask questions. I make conversations with people. And, focus on commonalities. My advice would be to not focus on the negative aspects of being the only person of your race in a room. Use as a way to build a bridge.
Unless...there was a focused attempt of hostility there against you. Then...that would be different. But to me, it sounds that no one asked you to leave.
A point to white priviledge. I was just thinking, and remember I agree that these priviledges exist, as a white folk, how does one know for certain they are recieving such a priviledge.
Imho, it has to do with treatment. Would you notice if you see someone of your own race walk into a restaurant and gets immediately seated while there has been people of color waiting a long time before they came?
Or have you ever witnessed white people grab their belongings as if to squeeze them to death when Blacks walk by?
I just don't believe that it happens to the degree it may have once did.
Have you constantly witnessed in the media that more positive images belong to your own race than of other races?
Have you ever wondered why gated communities house more whites than any other color? Why do you think that is so?
The black man was making exaggerated repetitious comments based on the white lady’s lead. Again, racially demeaning
Originally posted by donwhite
Those who have arrived or who hold the upper hand see very little benefit for them, even if the cost is low and stands to payback with dividends. That’s future talk and we prefer now talk. Make me feel good today.
I have condemned the Sprint tv ad depicting a lanky black guy who had climbed to the top of a file cabinet and assumed a very unlikely position for most of us muscle bound types.
I have condemned the Oreo cookie eaters. The grandmother and child licking a cookie in public, something well-mannered people would not do.
I have condemned the GEICO ad where the white woman has an accident and calls for help.
In none of the above would the ads have employed all white actors because the ads were taking advantage of a caricature well known in the white world and still capable of conveying humor - to whites.
PS to Mr JB: When I say something is racially offensive, take my word for it.
Originally posted by donwhite
I have condemned the Sprint tv ad depicting a lanky black guy who had climbed to the top of a file cabinet and assumed a very unlikely position for most of us muscle bound types. It was straight out of 1992's “White Men Can’t Jump” movie. I found the portrayal by the black actor to be racially demeaning.
I have condemned the Oreo cookie eaters. The grandmother and child licking a cookie in public, something well-mannered people would not do. But, as they were black, so do they have good manners? Again, racially demeaning in the circumstances.
I have condemned the GEICO ad where the white woman has an accident and calls for help. Sitting beside her is a black comedian who is probably well known to the audience but not to me because I only watch History Channel and CSpan2. The black man was making exaggerated repetitious comments based on the white lady’s lead. Again, racially demeaning.
PS to Mr JB: When I say something is racially offensive, take my word for it.
posted by Benevolent Heretic
I agree with you. Most people are primarily interested in benefitting themselves first. They exist Mother Theresa types) but are rare. I have plenty to work on in my own. [Edited by Don W]
You're looking too hard for racism. It really does exist, but don't manufacture it where there is none. Have you looked at the TV shows starring all black people? And you're upset because they look silly or stupid in a little ad? The fact that you only watch C-SPAN and the History channel pretty much explains why you don't see the plethora of commercials and shows that make fun of ALL people. I submit that you are super sensitive to black people That's just not true. [Edited by Don W]
Originally quoted by Benevolent Heretic
Well, I got about half way down your list and knowing that I have experienced about half of the ones I read, I can't give much credence to it as a 'black-only' thing. These are things people experience. You insist on separation by race. But if you need to think that only blacks experience them, you go right on.
It's really sad to get a glimpse of the mindset that some black people have about the "privileged white people". It reminds me of the 'grass is always greener' scenario. I only wish you could have the experience of being white for a while. It would be real interesting to see what you learned about 'this side of the fence'.
What you focus on is where your life will lead you. No matter what color your skin is. You can have whatever you want in this life. Regardless of roadblocks.
1)To be followed by a security guard when other people could be shop-lifting in a store.
3)To pay for an expensive item and have the [black] clerk treat you like dirt because it is instantly thought that you don't [deserve to] have the money.
4)To graduate with top honors at school, yet thought of as being an "ignorant".
7)To be silent about your achievements. If you discuss them, the conversation is cut off.
8)To give 150 per-cent to your job, yet you see others less qualified than you promoted.
10)To worry if hospitalized if you are receiving the best care possible.
(I went 5 days without a gown change or a bath - AFTER the non-white doctor did his butcher job on me)…
12)To not be able to move to any neighborhood of your choice.
13)To walk into an expensive restaurant and not be waited upon while watching others who arrived later than you get seated before you do.
14)To undergo bodily searches and interrogation at the airport or other important landmarks in the nation while others walk by, watch and shake their heads.
16)To be instantly thought of as unsuccessful even though you're not.
21)To hear the groups that advocate on your behalf be equated with the KKK.
24)To not get a loan from the bank no matter whether you can pay it off or not.
The difference is that you, Ceci, attribute this treatment to race. I just know that these things happen, people are sometimes mean, stupid, and jerks and I realize that I cannot control other people's behavior, neither am I entitled to. I am not owed perfect treatment. And yes, some are because of race. Your race AND my race.
posted by Ceci2006
I just think there is truly a problem in understanding the things that Blacks go through. I listed about sixty "so called privileges" because they exist and they happen. It's a sad thing that they do. But they do occur. [Edited by Don W]
Originally posted by ceci2006
If you don't believe me, believe HH when she says that these things are reality.
It's really sad that you don't understand these things happen daily to a lot of Black folk.
I just can't discuss it and find redress for it because no one wants to feel guilty.
That is what you are telling me.
I doubt that.
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I seriously doubt this one too.
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Really? ... This is full of doubt, but I 'd have to hear the story.
Again, this is a color issue....unless you act uncouth in public. Did you have an hootenanny in front of the maitre'd?
16)To be instantly thought of as unsuccessful even though you're not.
Hell. It's a factor of life--even on these boards.
I've had family members die because of the lack of care they received.
That is why it is better to listen and ask questions instead of trying to disprove it.
I feel insulted by the fact you said my parents taught me to be resentful and hateful of white people.
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They survived segregation and the civil rights era. They underwent some of the harshest treatment in the South
And it is especially sad that you just won't take the experiences as they are instead of spinning them towards "everyone experiences the same things".
Originally posted by donwhite
The blacks I interviewed never evaluated a person by their physical appearance, what he or she wore, where he or she lived, or by how much money he or she had. Whites, OTOH, seemed to have no other standards to measure a person’s worth. The first words, "he/she is good looking!" And it got worse from there. Never did I hear, “trustworthy,” or “reliable” or “generous.” I find that both curious and revealing.
Condensed Into two words, Ceci, it is “selfishness” versus “selflessness.”